Would you mind your partner looking through your emails?

i dont have a problem with that, we're very open here. he can read all my emails, but he's not the kind of person that likes reading, so really even if i am hiding something i still have nothing to worry about... lol i can read his emails too if i like... we both know each others password, so no problem with us here with regards to something like this.

I think I would be ok with my partner looking through my emails. I have nothing to hide from her or her me. We are very open and honest about everything. If you are not doing anything wrong then you have no reason to hide what you do

Even if you are couple, ones privacy is still to be respected. So I would consider it a big breach of my privacy if my partner would read my emails, read my cellphone messages or go through my wallet or bag. I don't do those things also because its so against to what I believe in.

I agree. Privacy is privacy. I think that you have to treat everyone, including your partner, like you would like to be treated. There would not be any reason for my partner to be looking through my emails unless there is a distreat issue. If there is then it needs to be nipped in the bud. It should have been discussed early on. It is unexceptable.

We have no secrets at all nothing to hide,nothing to worry about,trust each other completely and why not ,we have been together for sixteen years and intend staying together for ever.

That is a non issue at our house. We each have our own accounts but they are forwarded to a joint account. My husband does not care to check his email and so I read it for him and

Hi Shree! I absolutely have no problem at all. I think a relationship should be transparent and irrespective of all these. Trust and respect is most important for me. However, that has to be on my discretion. If my partner wants to sneak in with all wrong reasons I would rather not allow him. It should be a clean and beautiful mutual thing, I guess.

Yes I would mind anyone going through my emails including my partner.

My husband doesn't know enough to be going thru my emails. It wouldn't matter if he did. I'm not doing anything wrong. He does go thru my wallet occassionly. So turn abouts fair play. I go thru his wallet. It's all in fun.

I think your right. Privacy is privacy. If he were looking through my email it would make me think he was looking for something and didn't trust me. Same with my purse. I don't have anything to hide but I still value my privacy.

Legally, I think that's improper but sometimes, we forget technicalities when we are talking about our partners. My BF has access to my email accounts because he knows my password. Just to show him that I have nothing to hide, I won't mind if he opens my emails for me. But in fairness to him, he doesn't open it unless I ask him such favor and he doesn't use that privilege to spy on me or whatever.

my boyfriend dont want to use or check anything without my permission, he always like to ask permission if he likes to use, to check my accounts. He appreciate privacy, he also knows that i dont check his account without his permission too. There is no secrets, but its good to ask permission. happy mylotting and smile always

I have no problem with that since there's nothing to hide :) For me, my email is his email as well.. and that goes to him too. We don't have a problem so far and here we are still inlove :) happy mylotting :D

I think there will not be any problem for me because I don't really have any personal mail which I may be trying to hide. There are mostly different community mails and some job offers along with few mails from my different friends in my active account. I have separate account which I am only using to work on different sites to earn money. But still I am avoiding to take part in different activities which involves troubles and doubts.

My Husband don't even know how to use the Computer.So I don't worry about it.

I would be very upset. I don't have anyone now but when I was first married my husband thought nothing of opening my mail or getting into my purse. I quickly set him straight! Purses, wallets and mail (or email) are private. It doesn't matter if you have something to hide or not, there are certain things that should be private.

I don't like it but I put up with it, there are other things I like less and those i will make an issue of. I don't pry into his business and I don't want him in mine. Mostly because I end up having to defend myself about the way I said something or wrote something.

Good discussion.I dont think I would haev a problem with it but I would like to know taht she asked and Imust have the same priviledge with hers.However ,I would ask her to do that and imay be wondering why she needs to do that ,if its is a issue of trust ,so that we may deal with that issue

I think we all need some privacy at one point in time in relationships, no matter how stable and strong of unstable the relationship may be. I know that personally, an ex of mine logged into my email and looked through it without my consent because she suspected things. She didn't find anything to be suspicious about. She did find one email from another friend of mine where I was giving the friend some advice for the bad breakup the friend had just went through, and my ex took it as me trying to hit on the friend. It wasn't that at all.. it was me being a friend with some good advice. Now with that being said, my privacy was invaded and I didn't like it at all. First, to me, there would seem to be trust issues if your partner wanted to go through your stuff, and you need to work on the cause for those trust issues before doing anything else. On the other hand, I guess some people wouldn't want their partner going through their email for reasons like they are doing something they shouldn't be doing. In the end, I just think we are all entitled to our privacy at times.

I have nothing to keep from him so he can do whatever he wants. It depends if you really trust your partner though.