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I am really sorry to hear this. I think the only way to get the truth is to openly confront him. Be honest and tell him that you went through his phone and have found evidence. Then see what he has to say. Better to have this out in the open rather than to keep wondering what is the truth. I wish you the best of luck.

I guess the best way you can do is to talk to him nicely.. heart to heart talk will do.. ask him what are the messages you have read meant or what is it all about.. listen to his explanation and from there, think what you're going to do next.. good luck..

Hi there! I'm sorry to hear though that your husband is cheating on you. But I'm kinda confuse with what you're trying to ask. Are you asking if he means cheating on you or lying? Men are always like that. They will deny even if they've been caught.. If the message clearly shows that he is having an elicit affair then it's up to you what you want to happen with you and your husband. But if the messages are just plain messages, I mean no sweet messages or calls of endearment, then maybe he's just having a text mate. But do keep an eye on your husband. Let him know that you're doubting on him and you're not happy with what he's doing. Hope that helps. Ciao!

If the proof is their then it is their. I am not sure what to tell you. I know everyone handles everything differently. I think I would call her and talk to her about it. See what she had to say. If you figure out it is what you think it is then you have some hard choices to make. Best of luck to you. Sorry to hear about this!

m so sorry to hear this...i know u might b goin thru a real bad phase.... u know actually besides telling u to stay strong and to take it up with ur husband none of ur here will b able to help u out much....the only one who can help u is u...v cannot give the answer for does he mean it or not....how do v know....u answer it for urself....how is he with u at home???? had u noticed ne change of behavior towards u in recent times????? how personal or intimate were the msgs??? (i hope u dont mind me asking this)....if they werent very personal or intimate then high chances that they might b just good friends....but ur hubby denying it doesnt make this all look good...had been just friends he didnt need to hide it from u..... i hope u dont mind me asking this....but did u and ur hubby have a healthy, love filled, open to communication kinda relaiton????