What will you do if your boyfriend or girlfriend is very passive?

I would believe that there is some reason that my girlfriend is very passive. If something like that happens, then I would show her more love, so that she is more comfortable with me and trusts me more.

I won't be a big issue for me, i'll try to encourage him to talk and share his feelings, i'll try to find out his interests and then try doing/discussing those stuff with him. I've always liked introverts or as you say "passive" persons :D so i won't mind if he falls in the same category.

I would hate that. I like someone to stand up for themselves. I also like someone to have a conversation with.

response to you firstly,in my opinion,you must take him/her out from the state of passive by doing some sports,such as,maintaineering,swiming,watching some comedies,etc.just now,you can comfort him/her:happy or not,the earth is still rotation,why don`t we are happy,and brave facing life. Mao Ze Dong,the first president of the people repulic of china ,said,heavn won`t fall pies for you,you must climb to heavn to get pies.