mate cheating

United States
May 8, 2009 6:00pm CST
if you had a feeling that your mate was cheating on you what would you do, would you talk to them or would you wait to get proof? i was just wondering.
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@Manna02 (86)
• United States
9 May 09
I think I would need some proof before I would suspect him of cheating. I think it would really hurt a faithful partner to be interrogated about infidelity when they did nothing wrong. I'm either working or at home with the kids. I think I would either be pretty mad or sad if he suspected me of anything. Only if he seriously accuses me, not teasing me about the milkman or something. However, questioning would be okay....just don't let it go overboard by turning it into an accusation.
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@marguicha (222242)
• Chile
9 May 09
I think I would talk to him. I never had that problem so I donĀ“t know how I would react. Take care
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@GardenGerty (160466)
• United States
9 May 09
I am a talker, and I would talk to them and tell them what I suspected, and why I felt that way. I feel like in that way I am in control of whatever happens.
@carrine (2743)
• Philippines
9 May 09
i will knew it because i have these sense of vibes, i can vibe it and i can really feel it that something is wrong. proof? no need because why wasting my time for that. i will talk to him directly, and he will deny for the first time, ill give chance, and the second time thats goodbye already. whats the use of being together if he is cheating? right?
@carrine (2743)
• Philippines
9 May 09
yes dont prolong your agony on him/her.. i cant really accept the fact that my mate s cheating with me.. grrrr... i wont really stick on him ..
@born1989 (177)
• India
9 May 09
i would first talk to her and make things clear. if i am very much sure about it, then i would wait & collect those proofs & then approach her. seriously speaking it would be a very dicey situation.please, no one should face such a situation.
• United States
9 May 09
Hi psychotaz......This is a very hard question to answer. I have never had to worry about my husband cheating on me becasue he lived that life with his own father doing it to his mother. Even took him to one of his girlfriends houses one day. I think though if I thought that he was cheating I would just up and confront him with it. I am not the type of person that dances around a confrontation. I just jump in with both feet and get what ever is bothering me off my chest. I would hope that if he were cheating that he would confess and not make the situation any worse by lying about it. Then at this point I don't really know what I would do. probably ask him to leave and give myself time to go over it all and figure out if there was something I may have done to cause him to want to cheat and then if I could not come up with a logical explanation I would divorce him. If I loved him enough and could forgive his weaknesses then I would probaly try counseling but you know the old saying and how it goes.....I can always forgive but I can never forget and I would hope that we could still part as friends. flutterby