they say BOYS DONT CRY,really?

@queennee (186)
Philippines
May 8, 2009 11:48pm CST
Boys dont cry,this is a very famous line/sayings that we often heard anywhere and where ever we are.i wonder if this is really true.well,iv'e seen a lot of men cry but only in the movies,not surprising thats what the directors told them to do so.i've heared from a close friend that her man cries over her but in real? i havent encountered one.maybe there is,but he doesent want me to see him cry,they say if a man cry he loses his masculinity true? hmmmm... :) if they do,what makes them cry? what do you think? does boys relally dont cry or they are just hiding it? :)
3 responses
@athlon24 (106)
• Philippines
9 May 09
boys do cry... but the thing is "Boys don't want to Cry."
@queennee (186)
• Philippines
9 May 09
hahahha! i think thats the best description...true,boys cry but dont want to.tnx! :)
• United States
9 May 09
I read a book titled 'Men Cry in the dark' I don't recall who the author is but I think they do but in a way that no one sees. Boys/Men cry out in different ways, some lash out, some cheat, some beat, some withdraw, some just cry. Unfortunately, I have yet to meet one that cries a river of tears so to speak. I think more men would cry if that stigma of 'boys don't cry' wasn't attached.
@queennee (186)
• Philippines
9 May 09
hhmmm..u have a point,boys cry but they are not showy and just maybe,they dont like that girls will see them crying.thank you :)
• Philippines
14 May 09
It is not true that boys don't cry because every human being on this world have feelings. It should not be 'boys don't cry' but should be 'it's hard to make boys cry'. I don't believe in that saying because my boyfriend cried before when we had a really huge fight. Hope I helped =)