biological parents or adoptive parents?

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im not an adopted child but i have several close friends who are adopted and its not easy.base on their stories i can feel that they are lacking.despite the fact that their adoptive parents love them like of their own.they still want to find their biological parents.maybe they are curious how their real parents look like and if they have siblings too.and when mostly when they found their biological parents they wanted to be with them,regardless of the reasons why they were adopted.no question,coz blood is thicker than water actually.but i pitied the adoptive parents,how they feel about it when their adoptive child goes back to their real parents.if i were to choose,i'll keep contact with my real parents but stay forever with my adoptive parents,simply becoz they're the one who nurtures me since birth.but that really depends on every situation we are in.so, whom are you gonna choose if your into this kind of situation? biological or adoptive parents?