Married and in love again!

Hi Kaleem, stay away from the other person (they say it's easier said than done...we all know, it would be hard but you can do it). Turn to God. Try your best to put more time on your children and your wife. Believe me, you will not regret it.

in love with ur husband again or with someone else? if someone else, try to get counseling and make it work out with your husband. if with ur husband, that is cool...renew ur vows and have a second honeymoon.

This is just a guess but I am thinking that you are feeling love for someone other than your spouse. My harsh suggestion is to get over it and stay away from the other person. You made a promise, do not throw everything away based on what could very well be a passing thing. As far as the 7 year itch, I have been with my husband for 8 years this November and I have not itched all year, nor has he. Marriage is what you make of it. I suggest a weekend get away with your spouse. No tv, no kids (if you have any) and no phones. Spend the time together. It may be quiet because you might run out of things to say but at the same time, you obviously need to reconect with the person you are married to. Do that and re discover what love is, stay away from what could cause major trouble in your life.

This is not a time to fall in love again.You are not a kids anymore and must think like a mature man.Life is short and i think you have a good wife,that's why you still with your marriage until now.Dont damage your marriage,it is not a good thing to do....

I do not think that you are in love, maybe in love with the idea of that new love feeling again. Everyone goes through a rough patch from time to time, weather it be at year three, five or seven. You will get through this. Remember that you made your vows not only to your husband but to God as well. DO not take that lightly.

Kaleem, how would you feel if your wife told you the same that she has developed feelings for someone else? What would you do then? It's very easy to fall for someone but you have to stick to your promises, your decisions and your honesty to yourself and your relationships. So you are the one to decide. Would you rather be loyal to yourself and to you wife and God or just fall for something that might or might not work.