I Wish I Hadn't Said That1

All the time! Being on myLot and even on other blogging sites, I find people tend to jump to conclusions. Many are so busy trying to make a few extra cents, they don't take the time to really read what the blogger is saying. They assume they know what is being said based on a quick read of the blog. Others, have been judged so harshly themselves that the only thing they know to do is pass that same judgment onto others. There is an old saying that says: Hurting people, hurt people. People can't rise above to see others past how they can see themselves.

There are a lot of things that I say or write on the internet that I wish I could take back. I'm sure that everyone is that way.

Sweetie that is the Problem in this world now they judge to fast and do not read into it properly That is one thing that makes me angry with the world Do not worry about it People who know you and love you know what a wonderful Person and Friend you are Love you Hugs

I have done that a few times too. I wish we could delete those kinds of discussions too. I am a hard person to understand anyway, it seems.

It does happen but thats is the trouble with posting personal situations on a public forum if a few people who dont know your full situation answer you then they may judge simply because they dont know the full situation, I think really it is best on somewhere like here when looking for advice is to post everything that is related to the problem so people can advise properly or dont post it on such a large forum use a smaller more personal one where everyone knows you.

Yeah that is normal. Sometimes people don't get what are you writing about. I normally don't bother harsh responds. What really matter is i don't write about craps.

I just recently took a comment by a friend the wrong way. I thought he was just agreeing with me to be polite yet he wasn't. After writing back and forth, we cleared the air and i apologize. Saying yu are sorry and really mean it is the best way to feel better.

On a My Lot post I wrote "cease the moment" and I had meant " seize the moment". Once written it can't be taken back. Usually I have had lovely responses to my discussions that I have started however I have had two replies that were upsetting. In one of these I think the My Lot member had misunderstood what I had said in the first place. On the other one I think the My Lot member was being nasty. I have seen a number of other members discussions that have said highly personal things and from the comments they got they probably wish they could take that discussion back.

Hello worldwise1!!! Well I think many times before I start a discussion. I don't want to regret later for what I have said, because we have no right to delete our discussion here on mylot. It would have been nice if mylot had this feature. So as far as possible I don't post such things which makes me regretted and I think of the future too. We can't say, the thing we write here could be read by some one we know in real life which we didn't want them to know. That's why I mostly become careful while posting things out here... If you wont it deleted, may someone violate the rule there in the thread and may your thread get deleted lol...Don't mind friend, just a funny idea... happy mylotting...

I haven't experienced that yet, but I have seen it on other posts. Some people are quick to judge and others will be more understanding. Don't let it bother you too much though =)