why do relationships need to be so hard?

@sarcasms (120)
India
May 10, 2009 11:28am CST
i had a fight with my girlfriend tonite it was such a petty issue i cancelled my date with her becuase of some serious work which couldnot have been avoided ........now where is my fault in this and i assure u she has done this thing alot as in cancelled 3 4 times wen u have to do smthng else very important smthng comes up u have to be understanding enough to excuse the other person i didnt get dissapointed or felt hurt wen smthng important of her s came up and she had to cancel........cant she undertand and not be overly senstitve about such a thing is it foolishness from my side to excpect this frm her ?
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@hanah87 (1835)
• Malaysia
10 May 09
Woman is a sensitive gender.She will get touch by something we cannot expect,maybe sh think you dont love her because cancell it but i know you have your own excuse why you do that.Sometimes we need to co-operate and do not find each other false.Maybe you should give her a present to cheer up her back.
@sarcasms (120)
• India
12 May 09
a present ........she said some pretty nasty things to me after i cancelled i felt it was not appropriate i think she shuld be the one apologising.........
@rich_yu (163)
• Israel
10 May 09
im a woman i know we sensitive about that but if you say to her in the rigth way maybe i will understand.and yes relationship is hard coz ww allow it to be hard...you cant work and do your rigth way on leaving and the same time dont promise date or time to just go on date specially you know that sometimes you have unexpecting job..no promise just make it surprice next time..no promise no expectation..no promise no disapoint..
@sarcasms (120)
• India
12 May 09
wow thats kool.....ill keep that in mind but how will she know where to coem if ive not told her in advance......lol