he doesnt say i love you to me anymore.....
By arabellazoie
@arabellazoie (73)
Philippines
May 10, 2009 7:32pm CST
well this may sound ridiculous to others but its really very important to me, i just dont feel loved anymore..more on i feel like just the ordinary person he treats. by the way im on my 9th month of pregnancy and anytime soon our baby is coming. my husband stopped saying i love you to me after a 6months. im just so frustrated. he just dont care of my feelings. do all pregnant women go through this or im just the only one??? or maybe he has a new girl that he feels connected to while i cant attend to his immediate needs..helpppppp........
2 responses
@cdxishere (10)
• Indonesia
15 May 09
It's just your feeling so calm down.Pregnant women will be more emotional.Just calm down and always believe that your husband is love you.Maybe he got trouble that he don't want you to know.Read positive books will be help you.Great book like "The Secret".Do you ever you read it?Think positive and you will get what you want.Just remember think and believe and you get everything you want.Think positive
@jalucia (1431)
• United States
11 May 09
Ok, calm down. Based on experience I can tell u that all emotions are magnified during pregnancy. So, for right now, I would tell u to be more willing to give him the benefit of the doubt. Ask for exactly what u need from him. Explain to him that u are in a vulnerable place right now, and u reall need him. Try your hardest not to yell, scream or attack him because u don't know if it's your hormones doing most of the talking, or not. In hindsight I would tell you to try to not make any big decisions until after u get used to the baby being here. At the same time, seek whatever support you need because it is crucial, for you and the baby, that u are functioning at your best.
