How old are you when you have your first boyfriend?

Australia
May 10, 2009 9:31pm CST
I will never forget my first boyfriend when I was 18 years old. That time my parents are strict and they dont me to have bf until I will graduate college. When I had my first bf, my parents dont know about it because I didnt allowed him to visit my house. It was not serious relationship though and besides we're just only teenage. How old are when you have your first boyfriend?
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18 responses
• Philippines
11 May 09
hi! i had my first boyfriend at 15. it was exactly on my 15th birthday. -lol- it was nothing ultra serious, just hanging out together. we've been paired off since we were both 11. the relationship just kinda progressed, and i finally gave in when i was 15. nobody knew in my family about it even until we broke up 4 and 1/2 years later. not much of a story there, perhaps just being teenagers that time. :)
@JOIEMARVIC (2335)
• Philippines
11 May 09
I was 14 when I had my first boyfriend. But i did had a shildhood sweetheart when I was 10. This childhood sweetheart of mine is my first love. We became a couple when we were 18. but my first serious relationship was when I was 19 with a guy 5 years older than me. At present my boyfriend and I had been a year and seven months together. I hope this one ends in marriage.
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@bluishrose (2289)
• Philippines
11 May 09
I had mine when I was already in college at the age of 20. I introduced him to my mom, he courted me for a month. My mom approved of him but my dad who is working abroad doesnt know about him. Because he doesnt want me to have a boyfriend until I finish my studies.
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@jstmarfz (1498)
• United States
11 May 09
LOL..I had my first bf when I was 15. It was not a serious relationship. I didn't even know how we ended as bf-gf..lol. It only lasted for 4 months because I wasn't able to handle it properly because I was too young and don't have any knowledge about it.
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@celticeagle (168256)
• Boise, Idaho
11 May 09
I was probably about 13. His name was Archie Lish and I met him in church. We would right notes back and forth in church. He wrote me some very sweet poetry. My friend made arrangements for him to come over and we spent some time together. I don't recall what became of him. He was a very nice man and I enjoyed time spent. It wasn't a real hot love connection so we didn't last too long.
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• Philippines
11 May 09
I had my first boyfriend when I was 12 years old. I was in 6th grade then. Pretty young, right? But I know I loved him truly. It wasn't just puppy love. Too bad we weren't meant for each other. He way a playboy, which really disappointed me. Since then, we didn't see each other anymore 'cos he moved to Caloocan with his family and left me here. But don't get me wrong. I don't love him anymore. In fact, I don't even think about him anymore like I used to do 2 years ago. I have a boyfriend now and I'm very happy with him. Happy myLotting friend! :)
• Philippines
11 May 09
I was in first year college when I met my first boyfriend. Since then I never had any boyfriend :)
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@wahmivy (776)
• Philippines
11 May 09
Hmm, I had a joke of a relationship when I was 19 and then 3 months later (I was already 20 by then), I did get a real boyfriend. 8 years later, I married the same guy, no interludes in between. :)
@Fadolf (545)
• Slovenia
11 May 09
My first real relationship was when I was 16, but I had a girl in kindergarten. We used to buy each other flowers, perfumes (she got Barbie perfume from me once), magazines, etc. but I can't call it real relationship because we were only 6 years old. The first serious relationship I had lasted 4 months and we were both in love, but it ended like most teenage relationships do. The longest relationship I had was 3,5 years and it ended 2 weeks ago because we aren't in love anymore so it was more like torture for us than relationship. Now we are best friends! Happy mylotting and take care. P.S. After you break up with someone, do you still stay in good relationship or you hate each other?
@la_chique (1498)
11 May 09
Serious bf, 18, still with him now
@sunyisos (27)
• China
11 May 09
I will never forget my first boyfriend when was 18years old.yes,love is very difficult to forget ,i also like
@tundeemma (894)
• South Africa
11 May 09
i think i had my first girlfriend when i was in the senior high, though nothing big deal and we were both shy then but we have come a long way, though not dating any longer but we still have mutual respect for each other, we stay severay long hours away from each other as she is now somewhere in europe but we still get in touch
• United States
11 May 09
I had my first serious boyfriend when i was 14 and surprisingly it lasted until i was 18! Maybe its better to wait until your older thought because I'm not sure you really ever get over being in love so young and being stupid as well.
• United States
12 May 09
I was 16 or 17. My folks found out within a day or two because they were in a community play with his family, but they didn't really mind. The "relationship" only lasted a couple of weeks, mostly because he decided we were getting married and I freaked out. Oh, high school!
• Malaysia
11 May 09
I could still remember the day when I met my first love. I was nineteen at that time and I was taking a part time job in a chicken outlet. I was still studying in one of the universities in my country. My boyfriend was also working at the chicken outlet as a part time job. He worked in the same shift as I was. I guess we fell in love on first sight, but we didn't admit it and both of us acted cool and as usual. But one day when my other friend was involved in an accident and I didn't have a friend to go back to my university, he volunteered himself to send me back. Starting from that day onwards, we started dating and he admitted he liked me and so did I. I guess I was lucky because he turned out to be my husband now. So it means I am married to my first love. And now I am happily married for 11 years.
• China
11 May 09
It's serious for me if I have a boyfriend. It will/would proved that I am a g ay. So I never have one until now, even though someday in the future. Lol... I had a girl friend as I am a senior in college, I falled in love with her for a long time, until that day I expressed my love to her and she accept me... then we ... and now we've got married for nearly five years ...
• Philippines
11 May 09
I was 17 at that time.. It was not serious but I did cry and got hurt when we broke up... I was used to being with him.
• Philippines
11 May 09
I actually had my first serious boyfriend when I was 14. I was a sophomore high school then. I would not forget it. He is actually my first love. I still cherish the little time we have spent together. And up to this moment, I will say that I have learned most of the things that I thought, I wouldn't know if not for him.