i knew i love you before i met you
By jazel_juan
@jazel_juan (15746)
Philippines
5 responses
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
11 May 09
There are many forms of love and I do believe that there's no right formula for love or a right formula for a relationship to work. It takes two people to form that bond and regardless where they met or how they met, no one can really say for sure if they're for each other or not.
But for me, I don't think it's really possible to determine if you love someone before you have finally met the person in real, you see, there are many prejudices in our minds and hearts prior to meeting, it could be just because we perceive the person to be so romantic and sweet that we create an image in our minds on how he/she would treat us, only to realize that it was mere pigments of our imagination wanting so much to be real ~ this is why there's such a thing as infatuation prior to love.
After years and years falling in love and out of love, I have come to realize that it's a matter of time before I could really tell if the person is the one or not. I still am not really confident enough to decide on these things, but I'm sure when I'm ready for it, I would know.
The song is cute though, it's nice to really feel that way, but we all know that there's such a thing as 'best foot forward' when you first meet the person or interact with them, yes there might be a spark of some sort but still it doesn't mean that the stars have drawn you to each others arms hehehe.. Perhaps it's the influence of movies and move makers that have made our hearts so full of fairytales. But we all know that love is beyond that.
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@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
11 May 09
nicely said laydee, i agree with you, there are times when we are with a person for too long and we come to realize who we are with, that is the time where we can really tell if what we have is for real or if it is really true love. we can never really tell right away, like i have said it might just be infatuation or admiration. and yes it is a nice song...:D
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@Mercy2424 (43)
• China
11 May 09
I remembered a movie which was adapted from a real story named"P.S I Love You".The couple had been married for 9 years,and they still had fresh love.I envy that kind of love,the husband said the first thing he wanted to do when he woke up every morning was to see her face.I believe it's the so called "true love"!They both have passion in loving each other for such a long time~that's we many people generally can't do.I am wondering--why we can't content with what we've got,and just keep pursuiting more?This make everybody tired...
@mylesnarvaez (5451)
• Philippines
11 May 09
was it from savage garden? the next line being: ... i have been waiting all my life... -lol-
it's a nice song. and yes, i believe i can have strong feelings for someone even before i met him. i just don't know if it's love. perhaps a strong attraction or admiration.
i experienced this years ago. my bestfriend keeps on talking about her childhood friend that it seems like i already knew him. i definitely admired him and his contributions in their community. so when we first met in person... there was an instant connection. it had seemed that my friend has told him stories about me too. but we just remained friends, no further relationship developed because he was in a relationship at the time and i moved south of the country after that meeting. but there definitely was something there. ;)
@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
11 May 09
Thank you, well i am glad you also believe it, well i do believe it because it happened between my and my husband but it was not really love too right away its like infatuation because i was still 15 back then but it paved way for greater story, we are married now lol
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@mylesnarvaez (5451)
• Philippines
11 May 09
great! :) i'm happy for you. i love hearing love stories and ever afters. :)
@cindyhxf (1446)
• China
11 May 09
i believe that if you had good communication with him online.sometimes knew each other online and chated verything you want to talk,it is good way to know people's true feeling but maybe it won't happen in person.somebody don't like to explain well themself to stranger in person.
@fanxiangqian (185)
• China
11 May 09
i believe it,however i never run into the person that you mentioned!bless me.thanks!
@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
11 May 09
I like this song too...but in real i think that this is very normal. He or she was in our dreams, and when meet him or she, you know that he/she is THE ONE.
About love online, is a big lie..in my opinion maybe just 1% can be true. Even somebody make dreams and think that is possible, soon or later will see that all is a big lie.
Any way, i was disapoited. Peoples can play a game, are peoples who like to make this and laugh after, and he say after...i catch she. Any way, maybe are persons who can find soul mate on line, but 99% are just lies.
@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
11 May 09
yes i know what you mean, i know some people who are having online romance just for money, to gain and nothing else. which is sad because you cannot see who are genuine people or not because people are scared to reveal who they really are since they are scared to be hurt.
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