Is Good Friendship Turns Into Love
@neerajpandey_13 (1765)
India
May 11, 2009 12:30am CST
Think about that, if two person are in friendship for long time, then generally they are in love for after some time. Friendship is always start of love. Good friendship is base of love. If you become good friend then you are in love as well.
We can observe easily, if two boy and girl are together for one year then generally, they are in love.
Is you also think that you are in love then you are in good friendship as well. Overall friends are medicine of life.
S , share here your opinion about friendship and love.
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11 responses
@bdhsyear2012 (57)
• United States
11 May 09
well i have a very very good friend i knew for a month but after knowing eachother for around 2 weeks we were the best of friends and then we ended up dating after 5 weeks.
This was 5 years ago, now were engaged
so this is a really true event of love from friendship
@neerajpandey_13 (1765)
• India
12 May 09
I think you are more practical in the relationship. Since you both are good friend then your relationship have good roots as well. Keep this friendship for life time.
@Mitraa (3184)
• India
11 May 09
You se Neeraj, friendship is a relation and love is a feeling! They always grow parallely with the same persons! They support each other and don't contradict each other! Friendship emerges out from logic part of mind and love emerges out from immotion part of mind! Both are reflected through human behaviour and interactions.
We can not have friendship with all, but we can have our love for all the people! Thanks for this nice discussion and have a good day!
@neerajpandey_13 (1765)
• India
12 May 09
Thanks for giving much wanted logical reply as well. I like your reply but still I want to say if two people are together for long time then there is chance that both of them have same mind, and heart feeling as well.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
12 May 09
it sometimes turn to love. Love has the foundation of friendship. So long time friendship will u=increase the feeling and also the level of comfort.
@kapil_poundarik (960)
• India
11 May 09
well i don't think that this concept of yours is right , it may be right to some extent bunt not completely right.because this case has not happened with me yet. my best friend that is a girl call me his big bro and i too fell very happy to call her my little sister. well it was not in the starting that we called each other like this , but as our friendship strengthen we formed this type of relationship.well i also think that this was possible because we both love some other people , so your concept was not applicable on me , but it may be possible too in some unspecified future.
@neerajpandey_13 (1765)
• India
11 May 09
Is you think that love is possible without friendship. If it is the thing then this love is without root. Only good friend is good lover in relationship.
@tundeemma (894)
• South Africa
11 May 09
yes i believe that, many psychologists and love therapists often recommend that good friendship between couples will often lead to good marriages because they have stayedtogether for a long time and they know much about each other. i do support that its is most ideal to marry one's friend
@neerajpandey_13 (1765)
• India
11 May 09
According to your psychology is it is possible that two person living together for long time but they are not good friend at all.
@Jillianmc (84)
• United States
11 May 09
My Husband and I are like Cory and Topanga ( If you've ever watched that show), My Girl, etc. We grew up around the corner from each other and were best friends in kindergarten up until we graduated. He had a girlfriend, I had a boyfriend and last year our relationships ended and him and I were instantly married and have been married since March 24, 2008. I truely believe we will be together forever. Its nice to be married to your best friend. You need nothing more.
@neerajpandey_13 (1765)
• India
12 May 09
I think you are enjoying your filmy life. But I want to say that keep this relationship longer. You have to give more time to this relationship.
@Srini_Jana (230)
• India
11 May 09
I have a personal feeling that a good wife/partner would know all about you and its the same with your friend too!
@Hedwig (283)
• China
12 May 09
I think it is possible for good friendship turns into love. Because I have witnessed it happened on my best friend. She was in friendship with a boy for 5 years. They were classmates in senior high school and continued their friendship in the first two years in colleage. However, she told me a few months ago that he is her boyfriend at present.
In my opinion, this kind of relationship is more secure because they have already known each for years.Besides, they can feel at ease with each other because they are also best friends.
@aikhong (661)
• Malaysia
11 May 09
Well i do agree with you on this statement, however not totally. In my opinion, we can say that friendship is one of the starter of love, where two people started off being friends and they like each other's characteristic. After some time, they're so closed to each other and like each other some day by day. Then it turns into love. However, this is just one of the instance. For some people, they're able to take things clear, they know clearly they can just be very good friends and not really need to be lovers. This actually depends also on both parties whether they're determined and just want to stay in the friendship relationship or not.
Friends are medicine of life, good phrase! :)
@amybrezik (2118)
• United States
11 May 09
I am not ure I know the difference between the two anymore. I have been very good frieds with this guy (my best friend) for 1 1/2 now. Of course the feelings on myend are strong as well as his. I feel stronger for him then i did for ex- husband. But I have been in so many failed relationships both friend and love, that Iam not sure what love is any more. Maybe I am just prone to attachment.
@moujha (86)
• Mauritius
11 May 09
Well, i have ever heard of friendship turning into love but never heard of love turning into friendship. There is also another concept to which i believe is that a boy and a girl can never be friends. Well, if this is so, the boy will eventually fall in love with the girl or vice-versa.But lets make it clear that friendship is not love. Both parties should feel love for each other for love to occur.