Is it a CHOICE to be GAY?

@cainam (493)
Philippines
May 11, 2009 4:44am CST
someone told me that being a gay is a sin against god's will because in the first place it is a choice to be a gay.. i find it quite confusing coz if it's a choice i think there will be no gay people in this world.. i actually feel sorry for the cirticsms and inhumane treatment they are getting from the society coz i believe that it is not their fault to be gays.
2 responses
@fasyahime (629)
• Malaysia
13 May 09
although i do pity this gay couple for all discrimination especially for those who come from religious family background,i will not totally support this kind of relationship!why! they won't happy at last,now,yeah they look really happy but seriously how many gay couple can live together until the rest of their life! at the end this couple will succumb to the society's pressure to force them to live in normal lifestyle!I'm very sad when that situation happen,especially to those who think they already meet their soul mate even if it's their own gender! having adopted children compare to own blood children is very different feeling! and i think that's one the biggest problem in gay couple because they can't get pregnant their own children without the help of opposite gender!if their partner really understanding,it's really okay,but if their partner really against the idea,that will be disaster factor in their relationship!
• Malaysia
13 May 09
well i doesn't know either being gay is their own choice or situation called for! i really have no idea why they choose to be gay! maybe they always grown up with their own gender,they not really fond with another gender,maybe! or they want to find new experience other than normal!some people do love to take big risk,especially young person!or they really destined to be gay! i have no idea! it's people feeling,we can't exactly really understand the reason of why they choose to be gay! only god knows why they are!just don't brag or anti about it too much or this things will throw back to yourself even if you want to deny it !
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• Singapore
17 May 09
Whoa, I think you're being a little hasty here. (Particularly) when you cannot feel the way other types of people do, and additionally may have your own experiences to anchor from which appear fair, but may cause you to be somewhat fogged up by your personal feelings or speculation, you might think of all the negative aspects of such relationships. I stand by you in the pity you feel for these people. They go through such suffering, thanks to a fearful and slow society muddled up by twisted tales and tailored facts. The tragic wrongs they suffer because of deluded religious authorities, people who do not get their facts right, are terribly piteous. If one truly loves another, such a matter as having 'true' children is put aside for the bond between the two people. The matter of whether having real children instead of adopted children, as compared to the other hand of being with one you truly love having by your side and being by theirs, can never be argued to total certainty. It is about the choice of which sacrifice is to be made. I hope my comment has given you readers a little new insight! :)
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• Philippines
11 May 09
I think gay people are naturally born gay. They have high estrogens and testosterone imbalances in their bodies. And as they grow up, they could either decide to cater to the hormones that are higher. I heard some people admitting to being gay, at the age of 40.
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