If someone says somthing negative to you what do you do?

We're the same. I am not very good in handling criticisms. I take every negative comments seriously, and I think of it over and over again. Sometimes, doing that helps. I think about it so many times until it goes away. My mom said that I am a very negative person, being not able to handle things that doesn't go my way, yet I try my best to do so now that I am preparing myself to enter a real writing life. Writing is a job for the people who don't care about their ego. I'm starting to forget it now. And I think I'm getting used to negative comments, too.

If someone says something negative to me, I only give them a little bit of smile. even though it's hard to do and deep in my heart, it's really hurt. thank you!

Hi. Greenhill. Welcome to myLot! I usually will stay silent. But if they constantly say negative things around me, I will flip out and I will tell them, off. Mainly, I usually will just get offended and upset without saying anything back to them right then and there.

Knowing the type of person I am, I would feel a bit sad about it and keep thinking about the remark for a long time to be honest. But the best thing to do is to think about what has been said to you. I would see if that thing that I was told its true or not. I know myself so I know my bad side and my good side. If its true what the person said to me, maybe I should arrange this thing and try to take out the best from the critic that someone made me. But it the depends on how others tell you things. I mean I get upset if someone critize me but it depends in what way. If its to bring my attention and to better myself is one thing because its for good but if to make fun of me its another thing. I react according to the situation, but I have to say that if its a thing or another, I would still feel a bit upset about it although I might no its true or not.

When someone gives me a negative comment, usually about my race, I either ignore it, or tell them to stop, usually when I am angry I tell them a long list to stop, and I start insulting them, but when I am usually calm, I tend to ignore them and walk away from them...