Are you a giver or a taker?
By tabsnlos
@tabsnlos (587)
United States
May 11, 2009 11:22am CST
I think we all should be both, but I find that we all lean more toward just one. So which are you?? A Giver or a Taker??
I see myself more as a giver. I am always doing things for others, whether its for my hubbs, my mother or friends. Which is usually a rewarding feeling when it is appreciated. But there are times that I see I can be taken advantage of. That would be the bad part about it.
What about you?
3 responses
@Deepak_Online (396)
• India
12 May 09
I am a giver. Because i think giving happiness to others is what i am living for. No matter if anyone give me sadness, i never take it to my heart. Many a times i make some friends who leaves me in sadness. but never mind i am not changed by their actions. so better to say i am a giver and not a taker. have fun!
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@mikeley (318)
•
11 May 09
Hey tabsnlos :)
Well Ive always been a giver cause i really like to help people that need it but as you have stated people can take advantage of this.
A good example of this is a friend i once had but had to say goodbye to because he would spend his money on things he really didn't need or couldn't afford and then he would come to me asking to borrow money and this happened quite alot.
nowadays I'm more careful on who I'm friends with cause Ive known alot of people like this :(
Mikey :)
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@my_name_is_coco (4333)
• Philippines
26 Dec 09
I am both a giver and taker.I give wholeheartedly.it will be difficult if the giving wasn't from the heart.I also do the taking sometimes.I am thankful when I am given things I want or help I needed.
