love at first sigt
By ajlysay
@ajlysay (24)
Philippines
10 responses
@kevsgirlalways (5883)
• Malaysia
12 May 09
I guess it depends on each person, though no doubt most people think that love at first sight is actually lust at first sight. Sometimes when we see someone for the first time, we get giddy and stuff, like the way we are when we are in love. and some people automatically hit off with each other and they think that it's love. a lot of things can happen which people might regard as love at first sight, but we probably won't even know if it's true or not, until we've experienced it ourselves. I do believe in love at first sight though, nothing's impossible;)
@plddre79 (161)
• United States
12 May 09
ajlysay! the truth about "love at first sight" has to start out as an infatuation!
those who fall in love at first sight are the horney ones who don't have much morals to begin with. you've got to begin by learning something about this person
that attracts you. you need to know her likes and dislikes, her religious belief's
and if you both have the same compatability's for most things. the "love at first
sight" affair rarely lasts and end up in divorce within 1-3years. why? cause you
never really got to know or like each other during your eary companionship. you were to busy petting and engaging in trivial things of little importance for either
one of you. you become so use to your daily routine of seeing and being with each
other that the thought of marriage has no bearing on the relationship. true love
takes time to blossom so look toward a reasonable time-line relationship.
@melkbremomof2 (116)
• United States
11 May 09
I'm not sure actually. All I know is when I met my husband, I new he was the man I was going to marry and I did. It has been 15 years now!!
@tbrown1227 (221)
• United States
11 May 09
yes i do believe in love at first sight, you can talk to people forever without meeting them once you meet if the spark isn't there face to fac it means you were only meant to be friends. i meet my husband now on the internet, wewould tlk in the morning efore we went to work and then we would text all day long andthen talk at night when we got home. it was that way for almost 3 months beforew we met face to face we even talked about what happened if that spark just wasn't there. anyway we meet for the frist time 2-11-06 and it was awesome my heart stoped beating, we moved in together in april 2006. we are now married with a 1 year old daughter.
LOVE ATFRIST SIGHT IS VERY REAL I LOVE THIS MAN FROM THE FIRST TIME I HEARD HIS VOICE.
@Khadimhussainsubhpot (106)
• Pakistan
11 May 09
Love at first sight seems rather idealistic and fictious, making it spicy subject for novels and films. It has nothing to do with reality. A first sight may captivate and charm you, but you do not fall in love at first sight. There are many other issues to be pondered over before you decide a very important and pivotal decision of choosing your life partner with whom you are goind to lead your entire life. Mere beauty should not be the sole criterion of love, for beauty is only skin deep.
@nzalheart (2338)
• India
11 May 09
Hello ajlysay!!! Welcome to the mylot discussions...
In my case, I don't believe in love at first sight at all. The love at first sight is not true and instead I would rather say, the crush at first site. May be this crush can later turn into love if they see again and again. Most of the time what happens is that, people see a beautiful girl or a handsome person, just get attracted by their look and feel that they are in love. But that is forgotten after few days, when they don't get chance to see that face again.
For the real love, the necessary thing is that they share the moments together and understand each other. And for this, it is possible that it can start from the crush at the first site. In fact crush at the first site and further meetings of them can easily turn into love in two or three meetings...
Well this is my opinion. Well you have just put on the question but not shared your feelings friends. What do you think? It is better to start this kind of discussion with your thinking. Also with the descriptive longer post, you can earn more through this mylot. Just a tip to you....
Have a nice time...And I hope you will share your opinion further...Happy mylotting...
@bdhsyear2012 (57)
• United States
11 May 09
sort of
looks tell a lot more about a person than you know
so who knows, it may be realistic