all time for my boyfriend and none for my bestfriend????

The solution is actually quite simple. You need to make time for both of them if they are both important to you! Perhaps you could hang out with both of them at the same time. Or you could pick a day that you will always hang out with your best friend. If you continue to ignore your best friend so you can hang out with your boyfriend, you will lose that friendship. I would have to guess that you have been friends with your bestfriend much longer than you have been with your boyfriend. Is your boyfriend really worth losing that friendship? Boyfriends come and go. Friends shouldnt.

macyramos!- to maintain both intimate friendships with your boy friend and girl friend i would make arrangements for a get together in your home or a decent and friendly public place and discuss how you shoud share your time with him and her. i'm assuming that you and your boyfriends is a platonic one. therefore, you should split an even time with each friend. if your boyfriend relationship becomes more intimate, then you might give your boy friend an extra day for getting together maybe your boyfriend has a friend that might be interested in meeting your best girlfriend. just a thought! whatever, you don't want to spoil your relationship with either one so arrange a meeting and talk about it with all parties.

No matter how hard the situation, never neglect your friends. They'll be the one to be with you regardless of how the situation is. Try to find a way to spend with them, either in or out of school. I know you love your boyfriend a lot, but don't be too clingy and forget your friends.

It is all up to you, you should make plans with your girlfriend and set aside time for her each week or at least every other week. Plan to do things with both of them, if she is dating include her boyfriend as well. It is difficult to balance your life but it is also an important thing to do. You want to be a well rounded person, in doing so you have to learn to have both boyfriends and girl friends at the same time. You need your girlfriends, so try to make the time to include her in on things you are doing

it depend upon the situation. like just think . who was there in ur hard time wid u ?? who was there when u were in trouble .. who was there for u when u need.....just think it from heart,,,and m not telling you to go wid only 1,