this is for the people in seriuos relationships?

I don't go out unnecessarily to friends house or anywhere and waste my time for no good reasons. I am always at home 24/7 unless there are invitations for dinner then I leave my house to attend to it. Having a boyfriend who used to stay long hours with other people is a matter of concern and you should think twice to be with such kind of person. It doesn't sound right and try to find out why he does that. It is definitely not good to be with such kind of person as I have bad experience myself with someone who stay away most of the time rather then spending time with you. Think about it seriously.

I personally do not go out much with friends. Most of my close friends don't live here anymore and there's just not a lot of places I like to go that my daughter cannot go also. A couple of months ago I had to be dragged to a fancy gala which lasted til midnight. It was a lot of fun but then most of the attendees were parents and teachers at my daughter's school.....it was a fundraiser event. Other than that, I have not been out at all this year.

I could go every day if I wanted to. I have a wife that keeps me happy at home so I do not need to go out with friends unless it is with another couple. We both have friends that we see from time to time but never stay out with them until the early morning hours.

Hi there! I go out whenever I want. My partner and I always make sure we make our arrangements in advance so that one of us can stay with the girls. Sometimes I go out three or four times a week, it really depends on what I feel like doing. Having a family doesn't mean we have to be stuck home or not have a social life. And if you don't have kids, it is even easier; because you and your boyfriend can each do your own stuff whenever you feel like it. As far as I'm concerned, each person has to keep their own routine even if they are in a relationship - spending time apart actually allows you to appreciate your partner much more :)

Are you asking this question because you have doubts as to what your boyfriend is doing at his friends house til 1 am twice per week? My husband occasionally goes places without me and I occasionally go out without him. It really does not happen often. We just chose to do things together as a family

I am in a serious and longtime relationship and me and my guy are still in love. Yes, we make it a point to spend time with our own group of friends once in a while. For example, I usually go out with my own set of friends once every two weeks. My guy, on the other hand, hangs out with his buddies once a week, either at his or their house. Twice a week is actually fine with me as long as they are not doing anything wrong. People should have their own space even in relationships.

I don't feel going to hang w/ friends twice a week is too much (maybe until 1am is tho) anyway, to answer your question-I haven't gone to hang w/ my friends in months maybe it's b/c things have been very hectic for me but even before I never really went out alone in the entire 19 years I've lived w/ my DM I've left to go out alone a handfull of times.

This is a hard one for me as we are pretty much people that like hanging out at home and we have kids so who knows that could change in the future when they are all out of the house. Somehow I dont think it will change thou. lol I do however go out sometimes and I play on a pool league and when it is in session I play every Sat. and Im gone for about 4 hours or so. I encourage him to go out but he really doesnt like to so I guess it just depends on the couple and the individual couple. As long as the relationship is good and you are spending time with you partner I think it is whatever is acceptable to them.

Hi momtry, Few years ago my hubby used to go out four times a week and I used to hang out with my friends three times a week but it normal and twice a week is ok but now hubby don't go out much at all but I go out for about four times a month. Tamara

My husband and I currently do not have any children, so that makes it much easier for us to be able to go hang out with friends. Lately, we have been really busy. We both work full time. My husband is going to school and I am working a part time job to pay for it. So we only get to hang out with our friends about once per week. I do think it is important in any relationship to spend time with friends. I think spending time away from your spouse or significant other sometimes can actually make a relationship stronger. I dont think it is a problem that your boyfriend goes out twice a week. As long as he is still spending time with you and taking care of his responsibilities, I dont understand why it would be a problem. Do you not get to hang out with your friends? Do you feel like you and him dont spend enough time together? I think maybe I am missing the problem about which you are really asking.