How could I make friends

China
May 12, 2009 6:40am CST
Firstly,I want to say that I have many friends .But what makes make me write the word may probably be the reason that I feel my friends are not so sincere,not so easy to talk to ,not easy to play together not so easy to get on with .In a word ,I'm confused.Is it my promble or their promble ,I think I am not brave enough to come to positively...then how I can be brave?I want a friend whom I can't talk to whem I'm lost in the life...sincerely...
1 response
@ilawise26 (191)
• India
12 May 09
Hello Yigeren. I think you have very well figured out the answer in your own question. Maybe you are not able toi trust them which is why they don't appear sincere to you. You need to be more open in friendship. Just like you feel free to write posts here,you should feel free to talk and discuss various things with your friends face to face. Some people are not good at gelling with people in the first go. They take time to adjust,trust and understand. Maybe you are one of them. Don't worry. Mylot should definitely come to your rescue. Participate in discussions here and learn about people's opinions,behaviours if you are shy to do that in person. Soon you will build the confidence to befriend people in person. Keep expressin yourself freely and be open for criticisms and suggestions. Discover yourself and then you will find it easy to make friends. Take care and happy mylotting!