IF YOU SEEN YOUR FREIND'S MAN CHEATING ON HER, WOULD YOU TELL???

That is a very hard question to answer. I recently ran into my friends husband on a chat site and he was there looking for a date. He doesn't know who I am on there but he told me a few too many details so I knew who he was. This isn't a very close friend but I felt it wasn't mine to tell her. I told her husband in an email through that chat site that I knew who he was and that his wife was my friend. His account had been deleted the next day so hopefully that scared him enough to stop those plans. He hadn't actually cheated yet but he was planning on it.

Oh hell yeah I would say something. First of all, he shouldn't even be doing it in front of me. Secondly, there's no one to blame but him. And lastly, she deserves better. No woman should have to go through bullshits with mans. Sorry for my language. But how would you feel if your man was cheating on you? Wouldn't you like someone to tell you or when you ask someone and hoping to learn and know the truth? If a friend lies to you then she might be the one being with your man. I wouldn't even consider a person like that my friend. A friend should be someone you can count on, not someone for your man. I know it's going to hurt but someone has to say something before matter gets worst. And I'm sure you'll thank me for being a friend and just looking out.

I would tell her if I knew that I could prove it beyond any doubt on her part, that he is cheating.

I think i would tell her... But im not entirely sure. And other thing is that she might not believe me..

It depends. I did that one time. I worked with this Mexican girl who moved to Nevada with his boyfriend because their parents didn't approve of the relationship. They both work but she is the responsible one who pays for most of everything. We were close enough to for me to learn these things about her. One day at the mall, I saw her boyfriend strolling with a girl who looked much older than him, but dressed like a wild woman. He had his arms around her while walking and he even saw me. One time at work he told me not to tell her that she won't believe me. But I did tell her and they fought. The guy was so upset with me he tried to threaten me and my boyfriend. I told him, he shouldn't be cheating if he doesn't want to be caught. I don't know what else happened because I left that job, I didn't like it anymore. But I only told her because I cared about her like a friend. And I think she deserves to know.

yeah! i will tell my friend ...if she's that dumb she cant noticed that one that her man is cheating on her...i fo love my friend i will tell her...but its up to her what will be her decision if she still continue the relationship bet. her and her man or broke up w/ him...well! at least no guilt felt coz ive seen her man w/ another gurl...at least she's aware of what his man doing to him.....screwed that kind of person...cheater go to hell...

i should, i'm a friend, am i not?

not my biz

i would and i did. the only true problem with telling is that if he comes up with a good story or your friend doesnt believe you then u become the bad guy

I would if I was 100% sure and I would hope my friends would do the same for me...

probably yes...but i would like to give her hint or say indirectly because i don't wanna mess or dispute o...its might she who wont believe my word or he may lia ..who knows when things can goes wrong on us.

i wud try to tell so that everything can be solved b/w th two

I think you should tell. You may be faced with her calling you a lair, but hey atleast you tried. Then when the truth does come out she will know that you had her back. If you loose her as a friend, well thats her problem, atleast you were not that close anyway so its no skin off your back. Atleast you tried to do the right thing.

I would tell her for sure because I would hope that the favor would be returned in the future so yeah I am a strong believer in what comes around goes around

yes i would for her safty

It really depends if we're close or not. If she was a close friend of mine. I will tell her right away. I would expect her to do the same for me.

I would. Who knows what kind of "stuff" he will bring home to her if he isn't being safe. It would be wrong to withhold information.

i prefer open minde relashionship so we do with the other not in there back

mmm good 1 i do ones end was a bad end i dont know maybe not... better

Repeated qns. But my ans would be this, how well do you know your friend? will he/she believe you even if you told him/her?