Is it fair to read a mail to your wife ??

why not??? I go through his wallet.

If you are asking, then probably not.

Not without telling her, I wouldn't see a reason not to tell the partner unless you was ashamed/felt you shouldn't of been doing it, and then you really shouldn't of been doing it perhaps.

ofcourse its his right.

no.....i dont think so....she can have some personal life to which she may not like to revel......so fine

It is not fair. You must trust her, then you can have a happy marriage. The most important thing between a husband and a wife is faith. Your wife is someone who can live with you forever. If you can't trust her, who can you trust? You should do something keep your marriage but break it. If you are really interested in her mails you can tell her first, then you may allow to read them.

No

Although she is belong to you as your wife, but its still unfair to read your wife mail without tell her. Coz it seem you not trust well in her self. Why you need do that actually?

No, it's not right. And if you are talking about Postal Mail then it's also a federal offense. If you are talking email, it still isn't right. I bet you wouldn't want her reading your mail, so you shouldn't be reading hers. You need to learn to trust her. If you can't trust her, then how will you have a good relationship?

Yes,because I have every right to see her mail.It is also reciprocal.She can also entitled to read my mail.

It depends on the level of trust you are having with your wife.but one thing is sure that if you will not open the mail of your wife,you will be respected more by your wife and you will have a great married life.

its not fair. build you mariage with truth and trust. every little thing will turn to big someday if you start it.

its your wife whats wrong in reading her mail if you are reading my wifes mail then you must think about it

for me yes! coz a marraid coule is ONE you surender your all of it to your partner so he/she have the right to do that. i think...

No...you should never read anybody elses mail without consent!

No, I think you should at least tell her, I read my husbands all the time, but I tell him, I am sure she wouldn't mind if you only told her you were reading it first.

duno if its fair.....but it defenitely means ur marriage is movin to the dumps....cos readin her mail without tellin her indicates loss of trust.........relationships dont work in the absence of trust........

read mail to your wife? why would you even care what she gets in the mail. would you want her ta read your mail?

No it is against the law to open someone else's mail. I never open my husbands mail at all I put it to the side until he gets home from work. The same with my mail he gives it directly to me. Even things that may come for our daughter most of the time he hands that to me even if it is addressed to the both of us.

Invasion of privacy. Shouldn't do it. I've read over all of your replies to comments, and it sounds like you have an awkward marriage. Why would you read her mail without her knowing, anyway?