Who will you marry someone who loves you or someone whom you loves?

@ajithlal (14716)
India
May 12, 2009 11:57am CST
Suppose the person who loves you doesn't care about you too much. Who will you marry someone who loves you or someone whom you loves?
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9 responses
@jayrene (2708)
• Philippines
12 May 09
i think i would marry someone who loves me. because if i marry the one i love abut doesnt really care about me, then i would end up getting hurt, probably later our marriage will not work then we will get separated. if i marry the one who loves me, knowing myself, i will probably love that person in the long run. with him i know i will not get hurt. i would probably feel awkward in the first year of our marriage, but later will get used to it, then may fall in love with the guy.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
15 May 09
I also think if a person we love doesn't care and doesn't really love us then that love is waste. If we marry someone who love us very much then we will get lots of love and happiness in our life.
@jayrene (2708)
• Philippines
15 May 09
i agree to that.
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
9 Mar 13
I also think it is very good to get someone who loves as a life partner.
@youless (112496)
• Guangzhou, China
15 May 09
This is an easy question for me. If I can marry to a man who I love and he also loves me, then I will choose to marry to a man who loves me. I think as time goes by, I will be moved and I will fall in love with him. I don't want to marry to someone who doesn't love me, although I love him deeply. It will make me quite sad. I need to get attention. I love China
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
18 Nov 12
It is always good to marry someone who loves us.
@arkaf61 (10881)
• Canada
14 May 09
Hmmmm tough one. Preferably both at the same time. I feel that it would be the best thing possible. Only one of those things is not the best combination in my opinion and not the best reason go marry.
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
15 May 09
I also think it is a tough question to answer and take decision in life.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
15 May 09
Hi ajithlal, for me I'll still marry the one I love. For reasons you can't teach your heart to fall in love sometimes. Getting married is a lifetime, and still believe you only get married once. Marriage is very sacred, it's a forever lifetime partner. I'll still believe that you should follow your heart. Life is so simple and you should not make it complicated what counts it's happiness being in you, and making your life. Have a nice day to you!
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
22 Jan 13
I think marriage is always good and if you get a good partner you will happy throughout your life.
@haiershen (1080)
• China
18 May 09
for me,i think i should find a guy who love me very much and i also love him,that is the reason for married, if not, i don't think only each one love with another is better,if that,on the good hand,they will fall in love with each other,it will be deserve it,on the worse hand,if either fall in love with another one in the future,among three people will be burn,the result is sadness.
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• Pakistan
12 May 09
I will marry the person I love. I believe my love will make my partner love me. I will try my best to make her happy by giving her everything she wants. I will be loyal and faithful to her. My sincerity, faithfulness and my love will really win her heart and she will be mine. On the otherhand, a person who loves may or may not be able to win my love in return. That's why the right course of action is to marry the person you love, for choosing a life partner is very important decision, which must not be taken in haste and unthoughtfully.
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
15 Sep 12
I also think that love is one of the sweetest feeling in the world.
• India
15 May 09
My girl will care much than i care her.We will fight each other and get convinced eachother easily and we have fun every time we meet.We feels on others and daily we meet but we just worry about our marriage.I dont know what god written for us,do we will get marry or i dont want to think for my future marriage.Anyways i got a person whom i get loved by her more than me.keep smiling and have a nice day!!!
@Bloggership (1104)
• Indonesia
16 May 09
It would better to marry someone that i love rather than marry someone who loves me but i don't love her. Choice is important for our future comes. But some times people do a mistakes by marry someone that they don't really love only because that someone rich.
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• China
16 May 09
Sure, I will choose the one who loves me more than I love him, as as a girl you need a lot of protection, especially when the boy don't love you, he will not take good care of you and notice you less than you notice him. so girls, take care of yourself to love that one who deserve it!
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