I am in a fix please help. Family v/s Life
By vinayiyengar
@vinayiyengar (19)
India
May 12, 2009 8:34pm CST
Hello friends.
My name is Vinay.
I am a 26 year old guy and I have completed my post graduation.
My family gave me an option to handle our business which is into dealership of cars.
The wing that they want me to look after is inventory control.
My problem is that I dont want to do this.
I have my credentials and knowledge.
What I prefer in life is traveling.
A major aotu company out here has given me the chance of becoming a test driver for them. I will be traveling a lot in this job and I love it.
Problem is that my family would have to keep someone else in my place and pay that person about $4000 a month to do that job.
The company for whom ill be working is paying me peanuts.
Problem is I donno what to do.
Please help!!!!!!
1 response
@jazel_juan (15746)
• Philippines
13 May 09
that is a tough choice really, you are blesses because your family already has a business and you wont find it hard to look for work...but at the same time you are also given the opportunity to follow your heart and be happy and do something that you really like and in this case that is to travel...now which is which? at these time you have to be practical, so you follow your parents and do what they want yet your heart is aching because you cannot do waht you want, if you follow your heart and you travel there are risks there, there are what ifs, what if it wont turn out the way you want it to be?
i could not answer it for you really...why not sit down and talk it out with your parents? they may get hurt at least you have been honest with them...i hope it will turn out good. may you be enlightened and see the right way.
@vinayiyengar (19)
• India
13 May 09
i have kept them updated with my likes and dislikes.
They even know that I traveled around 200000 kms in 3 years on my bike.
But this is really getting me confused.
Got to join both places within the next 20 days.
Hfffffffffff
