Do you remember how it felt to be inlove?

I don't believe in love for myself, to be honest I have never truly been in love, the relationships I have had in the past were based on convenience and I don't think love ever entered the equation. I just don't want the risk, I just don't want the commitment either, I play it safe in that I don't look for love, it's too much stress, heartache, jealousy and hard work, life is complicated enough without adding to it. So I am happily single, always will be, I have accepted that love is NOT for me, and I am fine with that, least my life won't be complicated or I won't suffer pain.

I've been in this situation over 5 years ago. I was hurt by my ex-boyfriend and I was affraid to commit to someone again, affraid to be hurt and perhaps even more affraid of what I was feeling. I chose to take the leap into insecurity and I am glad I did. I have been happily been together with my boyfriend ever since. This september we are together for 6 years. It's all about regaining trust. You can only win if you are willing to take a chance; play the game and who knows what beautiful things might come your way. Don't give up on this person because of what someone else has done in the past. I know I would've been sorry if I hadn't done so. Good luck!