Have you made promises with no intention of keeping the promises?
By scheng1
@scheng1 (24649)
Singapore
May 13, 2009 8:10am CST
Usually children do that, they promised their parents to do sweep the floor, tidy the room and do housework, but they have no intention to keep the promises. I was one of those kids. Some husbands do promise to help their wives too, but they have no intention to do the housework, always want to escape with excuses like tiredness, headache etc.
Some adults do make promises with no intention to keep. Sometimes it is due to the pressure from friends, asking them to attend the church service or go some other places. Well, those friends sometimes press them to make a promise to attend, so they promise their friends. Then they will avoid their friends at all cost.
Even in workplace, some people promised to help out at certain events, always with "sure, I promise to help", but they never do.
Have you ever made promises with no intention of keeping the promises? Have you met anyone who make promise to you, and you know in your heart of hearts that this person will not keep his promise?
1 response
@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
13 May 09
No, I always do my best to keep my promises. My family taught me that my good name is more valuable than anything I could buy in this world and my actions reflect on my whole family. If I break a promise or commit a crime, I dishonor everyone connected to me whether it's family or friends.
I've learned to say that I promise to do my best or that I can't guarantee the results but I'll try. My reputation and that of my family is important to me so I keep my promises and think hard before I promise to do something.
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@scheng1 (24649)
• Singapore
13 May 09
Hi Dragon, agree with you. Those who always make promises with no intention to keep the promises do have a bad reputation. And these are the ones that always cannot get promotion in corporate world.
Once my Chief Operating Officer was so angry, he told my colleague "I do not want lip service. I want to see result."
Like you, I've learnt not to make promise, or to make a promise with condition, something like, "I can help you, only after I finish my work". At least my colleagues know that I am busy, and my work is urgent.