Daydreamer2: How many times you had your heart broken?

Philippines
May 13, 2009 8:36am CST
i was experiencing this heart broken since i discover something that turns me off to this man, he has been my crush ever since i saw him, but every time i talk to someone whom my crush knew, they always say i have nothing to expect good from him, so i have to try to forget him but i still can't and so my heart breaks and this happens to me every time i had a crush it repeats and i'm sick of it! Am i going to believe them or believe in what am i seeing? you how many times you feel your heart is broken?
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@carpenter5 (6782)
• United States
21 May 09
I'm not sure if I could put a number on it, because when you are a parent and you have teenagers, it is almost daily! Because kids say things that come out wrong, that aren't thought through before they're spoken, and in anger that are meant to hurt parents hearts. Especially a mother's heart.
• Saint Lucia
19 May 09
Trust your heart and dont let people decide for you or influence your decision.Knowing that person would be the best bet.Many times people say the bad things about someone and when sit down and talk to them we change our mind.Part of having crushes is getting to know them better.If you want you can do your own investigation about him.get to know him in your own way by asking question about the things your heard about him that made you uncomfortable directly to him not letting on about your crush.it would be great help.
@Beertjie (976)
• South Africa
13 May 09
My heart was broken so many time, I lost count. But now that I think back on all those situations, none of the relationships would have worked out. I can't say I have ever met the one that I know she must the one for me. I am not in a hurry for relationship, rather friendship and if something developes from there, it will happen in its own good time. My you find the one that will mend your heart forever. Blessings
@mkchaves (530)
• Canada
13 May 09
Hi daydreamer, i think you listen to them, but... you should also give the guy a chance to prove others their negative thoughts about him. by the way, i had my heart broken a couple of times by the same person. T_T sad isn't it, when we trust somebody so much and yet - they just deceive us with lies.
@sanuanu (11235)
• India
14 May 09
Only once because I had crushes so many times in my life but I did propose only once and that was declined. Hence, my heart got broken but now I have over come from that situation and ready to make a move so that I can find someone special!
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
14 May 09
My heart has been broken many, many times. When I was younger I used to feel sorry for myself every time a relationship ended badly; now that I am so much older I can see that all those heart breaks were to teach me what I don't want so that over time I could easily identify what it is that I do want! They are all life lessons and the idea is to learn with every disappointment and become stronger.