If your spouse don't like you join in the mylot website,what would you do?

China
May 13, 2009 10:58am CST
As long as i have been a mylotter ,I am indulge in it.But my wife do not like my new habit.she said that you should do some meanningful things such as do some sports ,listen some music, study some skills .She is not satisfied with this approch.Would you meet this kind of situation? what would you do ?
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
13 May 09
My fiance and I are both members of the site. When I first joined I was a bit of an addict of the site, and my fiance did feel left out, then we got a laptop and he joined in on the fun as well. Now we don't have a laptop and have to work around each other to make the money. He understand why I am on here because we do need to save money for our future. I hope you can convince your wife that spending time on here is a good thing and can help for the future of both of you. Good Luck talking to her, and also good luck on here.
• China
19 May 09
Thanks for your posts.We have had a talk about this.She accepted my habit.
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
20 May 09
I am glad that you talked to her and she has accepted you coming on mylot! Good Luck on future postings and may you receive the money you reap!
@angelsmummy (1696)
13 May 09
hmmm... why doesnt she like it have you spoken to her? does she know that its a way of earning a few extra cents? speak to her about her joining too so she knows what it is like and how we all become addicted lol!! If my partner told me he didnt like me going on it i would tell him thats tough lol. we all need to unwind our own way and for me mylot does this!
• China
19 May 09
Thanks for your advise. I will have a talk with my wife.I can persvade her to be a mylotter.
@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
13 May 09
My husband doesnt join any of the sites I do whether its here at MyLot or over at Facebook etc and thats fine with me..His belief is and has always been that these places are my social spots etc and he doent want to interfer etc..Of course if he wanted to join I'd have no problem with it by any means but he has no desire to..
@larish (2234)
• Philippines
14 May 09
I was like your wife. I also nags my husband for spending too much time in mylot. And you know what he did? He invited me to join mylot. Now, I understood why he spend so much time in the net in general. I was more addicted to him in mylot. He was now the one nagging me. lol But honestly, it is still best if you explain to her why are you so hook in mylot. I think women in general talk a lot because of the things they don't understand. Just be patience in explaining to her.
@jtine23 (41)
• United States
15 May 09
I think it's a little silly for her to be upset with your choice of time of pastime, but it's possible the reason she is upset by it is because she is feeling a little left out or like she isn't receiving much attention. You should show her the website, maybe encourage her to join in!