what if you and your girlfriend out of words to talk about?
By clorissa123
@clorissa123 (4926)
United States
May 13, 2009 3:50pm CST
So, if you and your girlfriend out of subject or topic to talk about, or out of words to speak to each other? What then? Would that be the most awkward moment of your life? Could that be an vivid indicator that you both are not mean for each other?
Because an in - love couple suppose have millions of endless topics to speak to each other. They always have something to say to continue the conversation right?
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6 responses
@delkar (1712)
• Romania
20 May 09
well, in a couple if you don`t know what to talk with her, that`s not a relation, or it`s at the begining. Because, in a relation it`s more about feelings, not about speaking. If you`ll just talk with your girl, that`s not a relation. There are moments, of quiet, maybe she expects you to kiss her so sweet, or to do something sweet. Try to do always something different, and much more fun than yersterday, and so on, and you`ll see that the love will never dissapear between you two. Do something, or go somewhere where you both like, be active!
@HelloMickey (1655)
• Hong Kong
18 May 09
When I started a topic like this to my husband, he would be very upset to hear it. He told me why I should care this? He is always a very good audience and listen to me when he is very tired. Sometimes, I might feel tired to talk as well and I felt boring to talk, talk, talk .... so I asked him if he wanted to start a good talk with me and told me something, and I started to complain him that we didn't have a good subject to talk with, as the situation of us was that I was always the one to talk and I didn't even know if he liked the subject I am talking or not, so I felt frustrated before.
But he told me he was very happy to listen to my voice and knew everything from me, as I can make him relaxing and laughing. In fact, he taught me a lot of things and most important it is the way we communicate with each other. He talks to me too, but comparingly lessen than the time I talk to him.
What I mean is if one of two persons can be the talk side and the other be the audience, if you two are okay with this combination, that's very great. As for me, I can read my husband's face to know if he has something to tell me and I have learnt when I should stop and let him have a good speech. Two very much alike persons can't be good couples sometimes.
@Margajoe (4747)
• Germany
13 May 09
I used to think the same thing.
But it is possible to just sit together and watch a movie.
It is not only the words, but the feelings that count.
But if you are not sure about this, talk to her about it.
I did with my BF, and that made me feel a lot better.
Take care.
@galileo2008 (1170)
• Philippines
16 May 09
When you both run out of words, it doesn't mean you are not meant for each other. Love can not always be expressed through words, by also by deeds. You don't have to say something just to prove to him/her that you love her. What if the two of you have the silent types of personalities?
@larish (2221)
• Philippines
14 May 09
I never had a dull moment with my love one eversince. If this happens to me, I would think twice if I am really with the right person. Based on my experience if this happens to me and my love one it means that there is something wrong with the current ralationhip. Happy myloting
@karthikeya108 (13)
• India
16 May 09
Lovers talk to each other cause they want to speak to each other. Its one of the sweetest pleasures to be involved in conversation with your love! The topic is not that important i guess, and since the intension is to talk no matter what the topic is, there is no chance of running out of topics. You have infinite no. of topics, all you need is desire to talk!