What if your ex. wants you back?

Never go back to an Ex, there is a reason you splitted up, and the reason is probably still going to be the same if you choose to date again, whatever the reason was:) - Just my five cents.

Yes, I agree. I don't need to go back to him while I am satisfied and happy with my present life and love life. I don't care about him whatever he feel. The time has passed the moment with him had gone already and there is no time for coming back. I have this saying past is past. Correct me if I'm wrong friend! Have a nice day!

That's the main reason Why the relationship ends, period. because there is no return if the person you once loved didn't change at all.or you have changed and you have no feelings for that person anymore.it's too late if she/he regrets making a break up decision such as that because for me, When it's done, it's over. No turning back, it's just a memory..

Congrats to you. Sounds like she is jealous. Hold what you have, never let go.

Hi All, This has happened to me. I have accepted my boy friend after we broke up and he had really changed by then. I gave him another chance as I was myself caught up in his charms and when he was away, I tried cpl of relationships but I was not happy with them as I was missing my ex alot. And when he wanted ro come back, I picked him with all my hearts and we went on happily. Now, I am married to him and mother of his 2 yrs son :) None of us try to remember that time when we were not with each other.

i have to say the same thing a big NO. kinda have the same thing going on with me ex wants me back, i've moved on i'm now married and have a chinld with him, i can say that i do have some feelings for my ex we have 3 kids together. good for you seems like you know what you want,

If this was a month or so ago I would have taken him back. He told he the reason he ended things with me was because he loved me too much to see me suffer the way he was when he moved and felt I deserved better than him. I still love him with all my heart, but I am dating someone new that I love even more and I very happy with my new boyfriend. I don't know if I will ever see my ex again, but that doesn't matter because now I have someone more deserving of my love and wouldn't let me go no matter what.

I don't see her back in my life. She would have to do some hardwork to even get a meeting with me. So, if she comes back, I will give reward for her hard work and will accept her propasa.

i have to admit that this if came true few days ago.. my ex-bf wanna me back, and my current bf would never let me go. we have to 4years relationship with my ex-bf. and it was my fault that let him go.. u know it really so hard to pick. but now i have my own bf, and i love him too. i couldnt hurt him and it was my ex-bf's fault to disturb us..to ask me back... so finally i said no to him..

I was with my ex boyfriend for 5 years and we broke up in October last year. He brokw up with me and I was devastated. I think I would get back with him if he asked me as he made me really happy and i had the best time of my life with him. If he doesn't ask me then I guess it wasn't meant to be. I won't wait around for-ever for him, but at the same time Im not looking for a relationship with anyone at the moment either.

For you to be in that type of situation I will have to agree with you. It would be pointless for you to think about going backwards if you've already moved forward. But for somebody else things might be different. Perhaps when they moved forward they realized that it wasn't all that they thought it might be so if they happen slip backwards and find happiness there, good for them. It's one of those things where you won't know if you don't go.Anyways, good luck to you and yours! Everybody's situation is a little bit different and everyone must find their own happiness. I found myself thinking not to long ago about an ex but I didn't act on contacting him. Right now I have an ex trying to reconnect with me but I'm not interested, he had his chance in the beginning and he blew it, what's to make me think that he's any different now? With that one I don't think that there is a snowball's chance in hell for us to make it together. But that's life sometimes ya know? If he coudn't handle it the first time around the second time isn't gonna be any different. Now this brings to mind something else, I think I will write about it in a discussion, it's something that really pisses me off once a relationship is over and done with. Anyways happy mylotting!

I have a break up three years ago. And that also for a misunderstanding. That time I have tried my best to clear up the misunderstanding. But, she gave me no chance. As far as I feel, I don't deserve to have that kind of treatment because I haven't done anything wrong to her or cheated her. She used to get angry with me not because of my fault but because her friends comments. She compared me with her friend's boyfriends. Now, that we have broken, I decided not to be in relationship. But, my present girlfriend was so much dedicated to me that she changed my heart. It's been two years now, but, we had never had a single fight, not even any kind of misunderstanding. I love her so much. Even if my EX turns up, even if I still love her, I would say, she doesn't deserve me and my love.

for my case i won't be back to my ex.i lost love feeling to him and love never come back i think.good luck.friend

Being faced with this situation myself, i had to remind myself that we did break up before for a reason(s), because things weren't working out. So why would this time be any different? Unless you've both matured, and are really ready to give it your all and make it work this final time, I would most likely say no. I would not like to go through an emotional roller coaster all over again especially if its not worth it.

If my bf that I just split up with wanted me back...he'd have a LOT of work to do proving himself not just to me but to my husband and more so my kids...and I mean A LOT of work...IF he were to do that and it would take a few months to be honest with you then yes I most likely would cause fact is I love the jackarse...