the anger turned to you bec. you tried to calm him...
By christian1
@christian1 (134)
Greece
May 14, 2009 5:26am CST
Trying to calm one person who is angry or having fight with other is very difficult thing to do!Most turn their anger to the one who interferes.But sometimes we have to take the risk if the one who is concerned is one we care of.How will you react if you tried to calm him but you got shouted instead?
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@LadyMarissa (12148)
• United States
14 May 09
Anytime I try to calm someone down, I'm prepared to be attacked. They have to channel all that energy somewhere!!! I usually try & stay calm & just let them get it all out. I figure they are better off yelling at me than their intended victim as I know not to take anything personal. It's hard to keep a rant going when there's only ONE person ranting. Eventually, they get it all out & calm down. 
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@Maryam27 (411)
• Pakistan
15 May 09
What's more important in this situation is to make the person try and understand before he does some harm to any other person and that becomes a bit difficult as he is already furious and not in any mood to listen to anyone. I won't take offense if I manage to stop him doing harm to someone else but he does that and shouts at me too then I'll teach him a lesson for his life later ;)
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