for me life is not a bed of roses ?

Well you can go along with the cliches of "life is a journey" or "life is a box of chocolates".. but I think bottom line life is what we make it. Every day we make decisions that affect our life, some are good some are bad... but it's life, we make what we want of it.

I agree with you that life isnt a bed of roses, but in the end we can help in improving it day by day. As the other member said, we make certain decisions that effect our lives everyday and its true. But sometimes bad things occur in our lives suddenly and we might feel helpless. I know personally what it feels like. you feel helpless and you see everything black around you but we should be the ones to stand up and fight in order to get our life back and make it as positive as possible but I agree with you that life is not a bed of roses. All we need to do is think positively.