This is what pisses me off !!! read it and tell me what you think!

From what I am reading, I get the feeling you are in total denial. Why should it bother you so much him/her coming around if you are not still emotionally attached to them in some way. If it's truly over for you just get on with it find a new love and be done with it. I think your assumptions that this person wants you back is immature, they just might really like your family did you even consider that at all. It may have nothing to do with you. This sounds a little hard I know but there's lots more to this picture then meets the eye.

That is a piss off! Breaking up means he mustn't do anything that has something to do with you and that includes hanging out with people close to you. I think that just beats the purpose of breaking up. I think it's also a total disrespect for your future boyfriend if he's is still around. For peace of mind, i think he must stay away. He is not part of the family and while he could be a family friend, i guess he should learn when to stop being a family friend.

My family wouldn't tolerate my ex hanging around them. They would wonder why in the world that would even occur to the person. Breaking up is breaking up, and you'd think the person would get the hint. My family wouldn't be rude to that person, but I'm pretty sure they'd say something.

Back when me and my husband were dating, we had split for like a month and he did the same thing to me. He would chill with my cousin and my cousins friend who lived around the block from my house. My cousin was living at my house at that time, so he would come home and tell me everything that he would say about me. I always felt like he was there to be closer to me. And yea that bothered me at that time too. But now we are obviously back together and married now... But if that weren't the case and I had moved on, then that would have driven me up the wall!!!!

It sure would piss me off! I think you should tell him that you would like him to stay away from your family more, because you can't bear to see him, or because you just want to completely wipe him away from your life. Good Luck!

hi citychic, i think there is nothing wrong with that on the first place maybe he become so attached with your family, and he already consider it as one of his own. if you two have break up, did he also break up with your family of course not maybe he really like the company of your family that is why he is still friends with them i mean there is nothing wrong with that,it is not because you two have broke up you would expect that he should not go near to the people close to you but did you ever think that maybe he is closed to them to i think it is really unfair with him. you said that he should move on how sure are you that he is still hoping that you would still change your or maybe you are just the one thinking about that maybe you are the one that can't move on. my advise is to think this over again be true to yourself.

I'm kind of surprised that mom and dad don't say, "HEY, Buster...it's been 11 years...maybe it's time you move on...she ain't comin' back!"