have u ever entered into a relationship because of all the wrong reasons?
By sarcasms
@sarcasms (120)
India
May 15, 2009 12:31am CST
hi mylotters i was wondering that do people ever enter into relationships because of wrong reeasons coz i was involved with a girl and i loved her but she kind of never felt that way abut me i felt so why did she get committed to me........why do people get committed if they dont like the other person are there reaosns like
to get back at the other person
or for financial gain and stuff
or just to get attention
though this sounds kind of like wat haapens in movies but how prevalent is it in real life because i wuld never expect anyone to be such a bad person who culd do such a thing to anyone else in real life?
5 responses
@Ritchelle (3790)
• Philippines
15 May 09
yes, i've been in this kind of relationship and it just didn't end well. this is not advisable. good thing if the aggrieved party in the end can still hold his or head up high or still has a sense of self. i've learned my lesson.
@Ritchelle (3790)
• Philippines
15 May 09
they say good acts attract good acts and the same goes to say that bad acts attract bad acts. live your life they way it should be lived. concentrate on your career or improving yourself. or concentrate on being a good student. if in the process of doing this you meet someone, i'll bet 90% sure that that person would be the right one. good luck 
@chiquititah (25)
• Philippines
15 May 09
Sometimes, it takes a little more time to realize if you trully love a person or not.... and there are so many other reasons which your partner may not tell you truthfully about.
@tatiana07 (497)
• Philippines
15 May 09
i never entered into a relationship for wrong reasons..i always do it in the name of love..i don't know maybe i'm a hopeless romantic that i want to experienced love and nothing else..and i don't want to spend my time being with someone whom i don't truly love i think that's a waste of time for both of you..
happy mylotting!
@maezee (41988)
• United States
15 May 09
Yes! I've done that too, although my situation was obviously different. I got in a relationship just for the sake of having someone to spend time with, not necessarily because I wanted to spend time with that particular person. It was quite bad and all for the wrong reasons, obviously.
It's too bad that you got burned by that girl. Who knows why the world has so many bad people.
@sarcasms (120)
• India
15 May 09
ooh thats also kind of justified ur giving the ersona chance maybe u start liking her by spending time with her so thats not bad......there exssited a possibilty fr more in that realtionship.......if u hadnt already decided not to get serious with that guy.....
@Flirtykumquat (927)
• United States
15 May 09
My first serious relationship I got into way too quickly and for all the wrong reasons. I graduated high school in 2004 and most of my friends went off to college so I was always at home not really doing much. In 2006 there was a new guy at work who I thought was cute but he knew no English. Him along some other people at work we still hanging out and I felt like myself again. Anyways the "cute" guy was going to move but he didn't want too so I had an extra room and I told him he could stay there and then we ended up going out. I don't want to say I regret it but it did last for 4 years but I don't think I was ever committed. I was just drawn in by someone being there for me. So early in our relationship, I woke up next to him each morning, cooked dinner, I mean we were practically married. And I got to the point where I was comfortable that I didn't do anything about it.
