Internet Addiction (Games)
By MissRae
@MissRae (7)
United States
3 responses
@Autumnrose2008 (1478)
• United States
15 May 09
What I say is its a game you can play a game too much to the point of it interfering with your real life. That should never be allowed. The minute that happens you have crossed the line. Remember its just a game not real life. I would also have to say that unless your husband shows the classic signs of addiction then its just a game and nothing more. Most people dont ever cross the line between real life and game life. I play several online games and never do I mix real life with the people I meet in game. Just my rule, and its very easy to follow. Here are some of the signs of addiction, lying and hiding the fact that they are doing there addictive behavior, blame on the other person for making them do there addictive behavior, stealing to support the addictive behavior, and there are more but I just cant think of them all. Any way hope this helps.
@MissRae (7)
• United States
15 May 09
From your opinion I would say my husband is not an addict, but there are many reasons I do believe he is. Here is a typical day for him... He wakes up, takes a shower, checks on his game for at least 10 minutes (more if he has the time) goes to work for about 9-10 hours, comes home and goes straight to his computer. Most of the time he does not move from that point on unless he has to use the restroom or get something to drink. I serve his food to him at his desk. This is very frustrating considering we have three kids all under the age of 3 whom I have been with all day, and would like some help when he is around. By help..I mean spending time with his kids. I change all diapers, feed them, give baths, and put them to sleep. If I ask him to leave the house and do something with us for a while, he is highly agitated and acts like he is never happy unless he is playing his game. I just don't know how to get him to be happy doing other things? It seems to be getting worse as time goes on. Thanks for the response though. How do you stop yourself from taking it too far? How do you know when it has reached that point?
@Autumnrose2008 (1478)
• United States
16 May 09
I would have to say that your husband has gone to far. When anything that is not real becomes more important than what is real it has gone to far. My kids and my family always come first and my game world comes last. I would never choose to spend all my time infront of my computer rather than spending time with my family. Sounds like maybe its time to look for help beyond what you can provide. Your husband is an addict. When a person would rather spend time playing a game than spending time with his family that is a problem. I dont judge but I think you need to get him some help as he is not making good choices. Good luck I hope for your sake he gets it figured out.
@LuvBr0wn13s (765)
• United States
16 May 09
I absolutely LOVE games....online, gaming system, PC, plug-n-play, downloaded to my phone, cards, boardgames......you name it. My husband does not share my love of gaming. In fact he finds it to be a waste of time. I just prioritize so that I can be attentive to the needs of my husband and household and still make time for the games that I enjoy. My husband and I will play Wii Sports together sometimes...this way we get to spend time together playing a game. Hope this helps...
@MissRae (7)
• United States
16 May 09
When you spend that time with your husband is that what you want to do or do you have to force yourself to do it? Sometimes I think my husband just spends time with me to try and keep the peace, not because he would rather do something with me than play his games.
@sreejithsreenivas (10200)
• India
16 May 09
I am tittle bit addicted to internet and computer,but i always put limit on my internet usage.There is a proper time table for me on the net.In the morning i spend one hour on the net and in between my jog i spend two to three hours.Now am working as a network engineer in a software firm.In between my work i get lot of free time.If i get any free time mi like to spend it on mylot and other money making sites.I rarely play online games and not much interested in gamings.Now a days gaming and Internet addiction is a growing problem facing many families, couples, and individuals both young and old. This psychological disorder is defined as uncontrolled gaming and Internet-related behavior which interferes with or impairs normal functioning, and causes severe emotional distress for the individual, their family, friends, or their loved ones. Gaming and Internet addiction can also disrupt one’s academic performance, or their job performance. Game and Internet addicts typically and unwittingly make games and cyberspace the top priority in their daily lives.
