I can forget my love but unfortunately we are not together! where am I?

Hi ur_kurus, It is really hard to love someone your truly love especially when your so far away from her, and missing her a lot. But in love you can't ask for a return. I been in your situation, but I really made a way seeing her, and proving that I am really sincere with my feelings with her. It's not easy to trust someone you also you haven't met. I hope she is real like my fiancee. I always that time call her up, chatting with her and sending her emails just to be close to her. And it took us 6 months. Well relationship are not perfect, it's how both of you work it out. Especially if your far away from each other. Promises are made to be broken. Why not for the last time email her and really tell her what you feel for her. If she writes you back well and good, but if not, I know your gonna feel really bad. But that is how life is. We can't have everything in this world. Have a nice day to you!

Well you seem to have tried everything that you can do to make her understand but she doesn't seem to get it right. As you said you made a mistake and by her reaction i can sense it wasn't just a little mistake that she could forgive and forget. Well fella...you have no choice other than giving her some more time and then write to her again and tell her that you still love her and can't seem to get over her. Ask her to forgive you mistake. I hope it works out for you. But if she doesn't response after all that time then you should get over her because probably she has gotten over you too. But don't repeat that same mistake ever. Good Luck!

Hi ur_kus! "A single lie that was discovered is enough to create a contagious doubt ob\n every truth expressed." That line might be enough to answer the things that bewilder you.^^ As what others say, trust can be compared to a vase, once broken, it couldn't be the same vase again, no matter how you tried fixing it. I think the best thing you could do is go to that girl and talk to her. It's really hard to prove to that girl that you're sorry since you're away from her. She can not see how much you've suffered because of that loss. But despite the saying quoted above, I still believe that sometime, somewhere, she'll forgive you. If Jesus did forgive us, it's possible for you to be forgiven by that girl. go! fight for your love! i wish you luck and bless! ^^ be blessed! ^^ -attente

Hi ur_kurus, Love is a very strange thing, one day it makes you feel like a king and another day it makes you a beggar. Long distance love affair are very difficult to maintain and even more difficult is to be in a net relationship. Things go wrong in love even when you live close by and chances of things going wrong in net relationship is much much more than offline relationship because you know nothing about her and insecurities are much more on net. Small things can be blown out of proportion and i dont say ur wrong in still wanting her but then some girls even on small mistakes can throw their loves out of life like you would throw a fly in ur milk. Best thing is forget her, dont fall in love till you are over her and dont fall on rebound for sure. Make your carrier and then make urself something real good in life so she regrets what she did to you. I am not saying that she has but i think she has picked someone and may be non romance in life might have made you do it or may be ur like me not enough romantic and girls soon get tired of me and find someone better.

Sounds like there is no end. Where are you going to find her, have you really seen her before? I just don't know how can I help if you don't have all of her information on hand. YOu might need to find a private investigator to do the job for you, if you are so in love with her a lot.

This is definitely hard for both of you, i don't know what mistake you have committed to make her stay away from you. But if you truly love her, you would go to her country and be with her, show her how you truly love her..But when you go there, please make yourself ready to face the consequences. If she truly loves you then she will forgive you. "Love is Forgiving", just as God forgives for the sins we have committed.. Hope this will be helpful to you.. --PaLs--

Personally i would never class myself as being an expert, but found myself having feelings for a lady i 'met' online. We are great friends and shall, god willing, remain so. But, unless i was certain of meeting her, or any woman from the net in person one day, it would be silly to think myself in a relationship, i am lucky to have many awesome online friends. What i can say from facts is, my sister has a 3yr old son with her partner of almost 5yrs, they met online and have a great live in relationship these days. My ex of over 20yrs, on and off, is now living with an American guy who came to Australia start of April to see if things may work, at this stage a September wedding is likely.

Okay, first, its been 7 months without communication... hmm, this is really hard. There's a guy who I really love and left to work abroad for 2 years, we'd been friends for 12 years, since high school, now that's a lot of time, and we have a very good foundation. He told me he loved me when he's about to board in a plane and its really annoying at that time, but I knew we have something so I waited for him for 2 years and now we're married. The point here is, long-distance relationship is not an issue as long as both of you are willing to work on it to make the love survive, against all odds... in your case you're the only "one" making an effort. Now its hard to hear but you have to accept that 7 months of no communication is enough wait... you're still young, don't waste your time with a girl you hardly knew and who is not even willing to forgive you for that one mistake (now, i don't know what it is, but if its viable, there's no hope) I know you're in love with her, but is she? is she really? coz if what you thought is true, why is it so easy for her to give it up if you had so much to look forward to? The issue about trust, in my case, I'll also be offended if my bf or husband showed me that he doesn't trust me, BUT, I'll show him that there's no basis for his mistrust and that its completely irrelevant to even bring it up and that is because I value the relationship and no amount of adversity will even begin to ruin it if love is really involved... Move on, I'm sure you'll find someone who will love, maybe you'll just looking for the right girl in the wrong place... Don't waste your time, you'll just get hurt, that amount of time is enough for you to drop it...