Fights with your PARTNER

Hmm...well, we only have REAL fights every once in a while. I think there have only been about 3 times in the year and a half (going on 2 years) we've been together that we've had a serious argument, and they resulted in us talking and crying and making up (no screaming because both of our parents always screamed at each other and we don't want to be like that, so we vowed from the beginning to talk it out and not scream). But we have things we do to make sure we don't argue. For example, I like to nag him a lot about things and he likes to complain a lot. These create little lover's spats that result in him giving me a dirty look, me slapping him over the back of the head, or something like that, which triggers any other number of events that lead to us tickling each other and laughing by the end. :) By doing these small little gestures that might lead to small fights but that always dissipate quickly, we prevent any real fights because we get our frustrations out that way. And we communicate a lot. If we have really long weeks and don't see each other much during the week (which happens quite often), so have a cuddling session where right before bed and we cuddle and discuss the week and reconnect with each other so that we don't feel too distanced (all of our major arguments have started because we don't spend time with each other for significant amounts of time).

The thing that we end in disagreement that he told me to delete him from messenger and throw his picture that i printed out that obviously i also do what he told me but he was the one who initiate contact after that we are now in good but don't have regular communication, was misunderstanding between a light issue, that he wanted me to talk to my online long friend before i knew him and said "you can ignore me", and i did not agree with him. Rarely as we understand each other and i do extend more understanding and patience. I do feel that i am eager to talk to him and when i see him online and i send message and sometimes he do not respond, i have already lots of question poping up my mind but it don't end up in fight or misunderstanding. Lately we don't have communication even i am sending him offline message and he do signed in but still ignoring me. Sending him e-mail but do not get any answer yet, but i am still waiting for his answer why he is not responding.

Our first 2 years we werent fighting that much because we always had time to talk on the phone. But now we are living in one roof we usually do other things and most of the time we do not talk thus we fight sometimes. I think when we do not talk often about things leads us into thinking that the other would be better off not talking when it is not right. Even if it is just a petty fight we should talk about it so that it wont get to a bigger fight.