Do you feel lonely without friends and family around ?
By fishkingback
@fishkingback (430)
China
May 16, 2009 10:12pm CST
Some time, I like spend most of my time to be alone ,without friends and any family around.But I am not lonely ,I am happy and enjoy the peace and quiet .I can do any thing I want that maybe my fiends don't.For instance,I often stay in a bookstore for hours and I enjoy it,but some of my friends could not bear it .Everyone is diffirent and unique and everybody have their own thing to do .So,it is impossible that all we like the same thing. It is necessary to be alone some time.What do you think ,my friends?
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4 responses
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
3 Jun 09
I can be alone Without being lonely.I like the quiet too. It makes me cherish when I am with people more. If I Had to be around people All the time I wold be resentful.
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
14 Jun 09
The time alone refreshes you so when you are with people you aren't cranky or rude because you didn't have your time alone.I feel that couples need time alone too. A guys night out or a girls night out, that way you can miss your partner a bit and come back refreshed and wanting to be there.
@fishkingback (430)
• China
14 Jun 09
Yes, sometimes we need our own space without bothering.We can't be with people all the time,that makes no sense. :)
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@Rainegurl (2156)
• Philippines
17 May 09
Hi, fish 
I can go on for days without talking to anyone. I have tried it before when I was still living in another city for my studies. During examinations, I can just lock myself in my pad and study. I have a lot of TV breaks though and I have to go out at least once a day for my meals. But I was alone because my friends are busy studying too.
Now, I enjoy my occasional moments of being alone. It gives me time to do what I want to do. Laze around, lie in bed watching tv and not moving 
and do some spring cleaning.
Have a nice day! 
I can go on for days without talking to anyone. I have tried it before when I was still living in another city for my studies. During examinations, I can just lock myself in my pad and study. I have a lot of TV breaks though and I have to go out at least once a day for my meals. But I was alone because my friends are busy studying too.
Now, I enjoy my occasional moments of being alone. It gives me time to do what I want to do. Laze around, lie in bed watching tv and not moving and do some spring cleaning.
Have a nice day! 1 person likes this
@jheLaichie (4438)
• Philippines
4 Jun 09
we do misses our families specially if we are far from them but we can still manage to enjoy our loneliness and have the time of our lives. we can do the things we wanted to do and things that we have never done before we could try havig it. but still we miss them and we could always finds a way how, right?
thanks my friend
jhelai
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@fishkingback (430)
• China
4 Jun 09
Hi,jhelaichie,thanks for your kind responding.I agree with you about this.I think we could live very hard without family and friends.But sometimes ,we also need our own space,just find the balance,we can be very happy.
Have a nice day here,my friend.
@hireshd (490)
• India
17 May 09
Yes I do feel lonely when I do not have any of friends/family around me. I do not know what I am supposed to during such times because of which then I involve myself in activities where I would be busy and I do not think about them:)
Sometimes we need to be alone just to be our own self and talk with our own to decide the priorities/amibitions/goals of our life:)
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@fishkingback (430)
• China
17 May 09
sure , we need friends ,but some time we need to be alone ,just do what we want.
