Do not spent all your life searching for relationship
By willy6
@willy6 (498)
Jamaica
May 17, 2009 4:51pm CST
In todays society searching for a relationship can be a full time job, especially a relationship that will last a life time. The more you concentrate on finding a relationship, that will last a life time the more one look for a love that is less likely to last.
BY distracting yourself from life with this task you are missing what could be right in front of you. It is very important not to focus all you life on finding the right mate, because as it is said what you are looking for will come when you least expect it.
When one look for a love all they will find is dead end, but when you least expect it the love of your life will come along at the perfect time. So dont force the issue just take your time and live and you perfect love will come along.
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4 responses
@angelsmummy (1696)
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17 May 09
i totally agree, concentrate on the other things in your life and learn to love ypourself before you start trying to search for love too!! if you dont love yourself noone will love you!! =D
@Smileyheartz (96)
• United States
17 May 09
I so agree with this, That is why I don't think young people 12-17 really need a realtionship. Not that im saying they shouldnt. But im saying they are still growing and Realation ships really ruin lives sometimes.
@Treblamon (40)
• United States
18 May 09
i really do agree with you, hm you could say, at the point in life where i just wanted to give up on looking for the girl i could call my own ((women are not objects, but only in the sense of her love being mine)) i had found a girl i really
liked and little by little i fell for her, but she didn't feel the same way, so i decided to just quit on love, but around the same time, i met another girl, whom was just like no other girl i had ever met, and i fell in love with her, as well as she
fell in love with me :)
and here i am 7 months later ^__^
i wont say "quit on love, it will find you" but just keep on trying :)
@shikaymaru (700)
• Malaysia
18 May 09
I totally agree with you my friend. I find my soul mate when I'm least expecting it. In fact, the first time I met him was at my house. lol....don't expect too much in your life, you'll only end up being stressful. Choose to be Happy and Enjoy life!
@Smileyheartz (96)
• United States
17 May 09
I totally agree with you, I think that if your looking for something you don't seem to ever find it. Some times looking can take years & years to come.
I'm not big on finding a realtionship currently being that I have to much to worry about in life. I sometimes wish I had a boyfriend but I know that i wouldnt be able to spend a whole lot of time with him and I don't want the heartbreak.
I think people should live their life and love always find its way in, so let it.
