how to love wife?
By mahanjili
@mahanjili (105)
India
May 17, 2009 8:11pm CST
I m recently married man. We love each other very much. We play three times a day. I know husband wife relationship is somthing eternal. i would like to know what make the husband wife relationship more stronger. Would u suggest how do u manage ur relationship with urs? Hope for comments.
6 responses
@ashish1487 (137)
• India
20 May 09
really your saying is correct about this relationship and in my accordance only playing is not enough really you wife wants your focus on her. she wants that you should take care of her small things and should give importance really you will se a lot happiness in your relationship so its better that you should start taking care of her and you will see the change
@mahanjili (105)
• India
21 May 09
thank u for ur comment. I also think like this and therefore i aware now to discover to make the ways to make our relationshuip better.
@anujain75 (1059)
• India
18 May 09
I am married 5 years back we have a son of 3 years old. we love each other very much.Initaially we also play for two three times a day. But now we enjoy each other's company love to talk whole night, play with our kid.
@mahanjili (105)
• India
18 May 09
thank u. Hope it is yet fresh relation as was earlier whwn got narried with all you, ur husband and kid. I shall hav the same after three four years.
@danielle101282 (437)
• United States
18 May 09
I think a lot of it has to do with time and dedication. To see if your feelings last through the hardships and sad times. Communication is the first most important thing in any relationship.
@forcashksd (228)
• India
18 May 09
Hi,
I haven't married yet!
So, i feel its not better to suggest you any kind of ideas. But, i am sure with one thing. Show your true love to her, that definitely works!
Cheers,
forcashksd!
@mahanjili (105)
• India
18 May 09
Thank u. I love her truly and so i fear sometimes of losing her love.
@lawana_f (326)
• United States
19 May 09
Start with this simple truth men and women do not think alike and relationships that last are not based on "play". You both have to work at knowing the other person. Men think "play" is the answer to everything and women needs words and attention. Example men look as certain types of reading material and only need the pictures and women need a storyline to have the reaction that men have looking at the pictures.
If you interview couples that have been married for 50 or more years there are three things you will learn according to research. 1. each think their partner is beautiful or handsome even after time takes its toll. 2. They had to work to stay together, it is hard to live together for a lifetime and both people have to be more than willing to not just compromise, but give in on occassion and not hold a grudge 3. You have to never use the word divorce, seperate or other words meaning the same in a debate, disagreement or fight in your life as once the word is out there it is in both of your minds and that is a absence of commitment.
Live life as it is meant to be lived and remember everything in moderation over time. The new wears off and then the work starts and you can make the work fun and keep the relationship new if you try.
@candramawa (114)
• Indonesia
20 May 09
Well, there are many ways to make our love stronger. Intimate action is definitely one of those but doing it three times a day doesn't count to be the factor. I guess loving our wife is more than that. We have to give the feeling of secure, trust, respect caring, daring as well as loving. The most important of all is how to make our partner feels that way. As the saying goes "the more (love) we give, the more we get in return". Trust me, it works.