paranoia

When you doing that it is sure is annoying...I happen to experience when my partner always checking on me...It stress me out. What's the point of loving your partner but not being able to trust him or her.

I think trust is a key factor in a relationship. Communication is the number one factor that will make you or break you. Talk to him about it, if hes the one then everything will be fine.

Yeah, I've gone through that as well. It was brought about by my insecurities. It does drive guys nuts and eventually they'll grow tired of it. So, I'd suggest you take the backseat and just enjoy the journey. Don't stress out too much because it'll only spoil the relationship. What I actually did was to tell him of my fears. He just laughed at it, and I asked him if he could help me out with it. He is helping me out the best he can to make me feel secure, and I am also doing my best to keep the paranoia off. By the way, you've just been the guy for 5 months and already he's your fiance??? What's the rush honey? You're not thinking that getting married to this guy is the ONLY way for you to be truly happy, hopefully not? If that's your reason though, I'd tell you that ain't a good way to start things. Anyway, that's your business and all. But keep your toes on the ground. You won't want him to leave you and say "I left her because she just choked the living daylights out of me with all the stress!". Remember, you can't do anything nor can force someone to be with you if they no longer want to. Just keep calm, it's much much too early to be clinging to someone you barely know. And stop expected too. There's nothing more hurtful that to be expecting too much too soon. Just think of it this way, I usually ask myself "What if today is the last day we're together, how would I want him to remember me by?" That way, I would be calm and be the best girlfriend hehehe.. it somehow works. But still, you have to talk to him about the insecurities. If he truly loves you he'll be willing to help you out, but you have to help yourself as well. Lastly, I'm sensing some past hurts that's why you're so paranoid. I hope you are over those hurts before jumping in this new relationship. Good luck!

If your fiance hasn't given you any reasons not to trust him then you might be suffering from an anxiety disorder or low self esteem. All of this worry and stress is not good for you, physically or emotionally, and it will eventually drive him away. You might want to see a doctor and/or a counselor so that you can put yourself in a better place emotionally.

You are just afraid you might lose something you care so much about. Remember, chemistry holds true love together. Never cage your true love. You will rob him of happiness. Love is always best when it is free. Set it free and if it doesn't return, it was never yours to begin with. True love always comes back!!!!