A girl having a boyfriend, yet seeing another..?
By asherem2
@asherem2 (257)
Thailand
May 17, 2009 8:56pm CST
Here in myLot you can read a lot of real life drama. and somehow, if you really take them into heart - it will just drive you crazy! and here's what drives me crazy:
One of our myLot friend cousin's is presently having a boyfriend. the boyfriend is quite a good guy - doing some shopping, laundry and other things to make life easier for her. In short this guy, is investing his time and effort to show - his commitment and love to the girl.
Yet, this girl is saying she love this boyfriend - yet, seeing another guy and what more, confess that she loves this new guy...duh?
For lovers love is spelled commitment - unless you're committed then you're not in love. I might not see the real reason behind but its crap! don't ever tell me that it is love....love has been abused for long.
i call it betrayal! what do you think of this kind of girl?
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3 responses
@freebird007 (53)
• India
18 May 09
i dont think its betrayal....love should be spread all across the world....its natural tendency of womens to be loved by many boys....natural attraction....
i dont think any girl can remain commited with one guy for long time....after some time it wipes out , means love ends...and they needs to love other human beings....
@shikaymaru (700)
• Malaysia
18 May 09
I've seen this discussion before...well, some people just can't get enough, they took love for granted..don't seems to appreciated the person who love them truly. People can become stupid and blinded by desire.
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
18 May 09
This is why I always respect those people who don't use the word "LOVE", "PROMISE", and "SORRY" constantly. They use these words as if they were just reciting the alphabet or numbers. The meaning isn't felt.
I doubt that girl really knows what 'love' is. I bet she's blinded by the feeling that many guys are wooing for her heart.
I actually have a friend like that. Although, I don't blame her for doing so. She was just hurt so many times that she feels as if she's already numb and no longer sees the point of loving. She likes the attention men do give her that's why she juggles them one-by-one according to her preferred time to be with them or to talk to them.
It's bad really. But who could blame her? I certainly cannot since that isn't my life and certainly none of my business.
So, with cousin of your friend. It's her life. If your friend is really close to her, he/she should advice her that nothing good ever comes to cheating or betraying someone who's really 'true'.
Sooner or later if you have so many and trick people into 'loving', you'd lose them all.