Marriage is to endure hardship with it?

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Just saw a Japanese TV. Hero to his girlfriend to marry him, talking about these giant lines: "In the future you want to join me in trouble!" It could be seen that hero of the fiancee to say something like this is a heart full of regret: the marriage will not bring happiness to you, it will only allow you to endure hardship with me. I appreciate this line. Life is suffering. Do not have the knowledge of suffering, there is no moral suffering, the plight of no money, no freedom of suffering, there is no hard feelings, the plight of school knowledge, the hard job of a certain industry, the plight of children, the bitter pain of aging, death bitter. Life itself is suffering. Married to such a life of two people linked to the form itself does not change the essence of life, the essence of life is suffering, marriage can change the appearance of life, forms, can not change the essence of life. Therefore, the time of marriage with each other to say "after you had to endure hardship with me!" Is very true, very true words. This is the case, than "I love you" real. "I love you", you have to marry me? What are the reasons? The implication is that you love me, you can let me happiness? "Love" It's impossible to make another person happy, you love a person, you can only feel happy. With your support, and have a sense of achievement, that loved the people? The hardships of life, not even the same kind of love, can not escape. Others do not because you have love for you, it will reduce the ah. I have a friend who recently divorced, I asked, why does a divorce? He did not say that only from a long time ago. Said to me: marriage is two people with hardship, and if you think the time of marriage, they know that they should not marry; if married, because the two people will not want to get from the marriage, "happiness", the results of the two people and not get disappointed; or will not divorce - is the one to endure hardship and bitterness go on it too.