do u trust netpal?
@singasongforme (52)
China
May 18, 2009 11:00am CST
i have a net pal from algeria. which know very lillte about each other. but we have share our pics.when he saw mine, he cant help to love me and he also said he like to marry me. he iniveted me to algeria when my summer vacation starts. what can i do? should i believe him. by the way, he also said he would like to pay the cost for my trip. whats ur opinion? please share
5 responses
@prowaynie (139)
• Malaysia
19 May 09
I think at first you need to find out more about him. How long do you know him? Do you believe what his said? How trusworthy are him ? I have a good net pal which know for a few years and now still keep in touch and i has attended his wedding ceremony last year which i have know and met him for about 7 years plus ago.
In net pal, i think that have some sincerelly to be friends and some is not sincere and just for fun only. You should open yours eye and find out the truth.
Good luck and god bless you!
@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
18 May 09
One of my male friends met an American lady on a web site where people can chat. They messaged each other for more than one year. He paid for his own flight from London to Los Angeles. He went to stay with her. They began a relationship. He went home months later. The next time he came over to see her they got engaged to be married. Then months later they began to get on badly and he came back home. The American lady was genuine but I must point out some people with profiles on the Internet might not be.
I wonder if you can talk on the phone to your Internet friend from Algeria? You need to find out lots more about him for your own safety if you do decide to go to Algeria. Sometimes a lady and a man can chat on the Internet and really like each other. Then when they meet they might not get on so well. If your Algerian Internet friend pays for your airline ticket and go don't get on things could be difficult. It would be better if you paid for your ticket if you are going there. Most people in the world are decent but there are some that are tricky. Good luck.
@justinhk2107 (712)
• Hong Kong
18 May 09
you should get more info from him b4 you go. have you webcam with him? someone useothers pic to get netpal belive. you can ask him if you would come with your friend for vacation, and see how his respone, And I think if a man really like a girl (marry relationship) he would come to you country to visite you first.
@bobmnu (8157)
• United States
18 May 09
Are you sure it is his picture? I would not go half way around the world to a different culture to meet a man you have only exchanged emails with. My son met a girl on line and wanted ot meet her. She lived about 120 miles from our house so we drove him there but nly after talking to her parents and arrainging for a time to meet them. Be very careful. Algeria is still a hot bed of slavery and young ladies who go there, like you, often do not return. Be very careful.
@sugarfloss (2139)
• Malaysia
18 May 09
hello there singasongforme!I believe you shouldn't give away pictures to strangers and I think you shouldn't go to Algeria without someone accompanying you. It's a "Dog-Eat-Dog-World" out there. You'll never know what's real anymore. Please take advices from everyone else. Be safe!