Life After Death!!

@Eweniks (361)
Nigeria
May 18, 2009 2:42pm CST
Have you ever think of what people say about you, your lifestyle and your attitude towards others? I am this will scare most of us who are afraid to die. Some people have died several years ago, but till today, we still make references to them, either for good or for bad. Now, how would you want to be be remembered, for good or for bad? For me, I want to be remembered for good. What about you?
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10 responses
• China
19 May 09
I think no one want to be remembered as a bad man/woman, so do I. Many so called "bad man/woman" probably are forced to do something bad by the life or some other people, mybe those things aren't their own will original.For me, I do really want to be remembered for good.Although this is not easy to achieve, I'll try my best to do my job,my study and any other things I must do.
@Eweniks (361)
• Nigeria
19 May 09
Yes, some a behaving the way they do today cos of the treatment they got from other people, either positively or negatively. Thanks for responding.
@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
19 May 09
I would think we would all want to be remember for the good things we did in our lives. Plus you never know once we die our spirits may be able to hear what people on earth are saying about us and if its not nice they could come back to haunt you! LOL LOL LOL - have a great day!
• Italy
19 May 09
I wish ppllz will remember me as a smiley person and i dont want be remembered in so many ppllz only my own next generation, all my coming youngsters. I always try to stay smiley so i think my wish could be true in future.
@Eweniks (361)
• Nigeria
19 May 09
Good response. Thank you.
@mhethess (379)
• Philippines
19 May 09
Hi Eweniks, yeah you are right we all want everybody to remember us as a good person. But we need to do something about it if we want others to say something good about us. We have to live a good life not with our own effort but with the guidance and blessing of God. If we live a holy life, a life with out a single spot no wrinkles of sin before we all rest in peace we are sure of 100% hppy life in heaven. All we need to do is to submit our Life to God and let Him be the anchor of our life, the captain of the ship and we need to live a life according to Him. It is very hard to do it by ones own strenght but if we have God in us nothing is impossible. Thanks can you add me as your friend?
@Eweniks (361)
• Nigeria
19 May 09
My dear, I agree with you. We cannot do anything without God on our side. But we should try and do good for others to learn from. Thanks for sharing this topic with me. Sure i add you as my friend.
@ruworth (147)
19 May 09
Hi I dont really bother what other people think of me just what my family think. No matter what you do in life there will be atleast one bad thing people will remember about you, people are very good in pointing out the bad stuff before the good stuff. I wold like to be remembered for good things but thats not the way people are programmed. Im an ex-doorman so i have done bad things to people (not gangster style) but thrown people out of bars, clubs etc. You can't go through life and have everyone like you, its impossible, even the pope is hated by people and he is god's right hand man. Happy Mylotting
@Eweniks (361)
• Nigeria
19 May 09
That's human beings for you. Some people can never paint a good picture of others. They always go for the bad side. It's in some people's nature. Thanks for your contribution.
• Japan
19 May 09
This is completely a theoratical question. And the answer is, without a doubt, for good. We cant be good all the way of our life. What I want to say is just lead your life, you own it, and definitely you wil never get it again. Anybody remembers you for good or bad, its none of business once you die. If you think I have to be good so that after I die everybody has to remember me for good, you may not enjoy your life to the fullest.
@Eweniks (361)
• Nigeria
19 May 09
That's good, satisfy yourself before others. Thanks for responding.
@cudamani (996)
• India
19 May 09
Same thing with me too. I too want to be remembered for good alone.
@macel19 (202)
• Philippines
19 May 09
I dont care what other people think about me as long as i am doing the right thing. I always believed that you can please everybody.Sucess of one person is not measured of how other's think about you, it is what you think of yourself. Others opinion may sometimes be important but the final decision is ours. I want to be remembered as a woman who fight the good fight of faith.
@larish (2234)
• Philippines
19 May 09
This is a very hard questions. As much as I wanted, I also want people to say good things about me. But still I know I cannot please everyone so I also expect some people will hate me and say bad things about me. Whatever opinion these people have on me, I think the best thing to do is just be myself and do things the way i wanted it. I just make sure that I don't offend people if ever I did, I make sure that I didn't make it intentionally.
@abkinsey (173)
• United States
18 May 09
I hope people remember me in a positive light. I try to live my life in a way where I am of service of others. I try to contribute positive things to the world. I know I have also made some mistakes in my life, but hopefully people will remember me for the good things I have contributed. That being said, I hope to stick around for a very long time!
@Eweniks (361)
• Nigeria
19 May 09
I agree with you. One has to be remembered for good and not for bad. God have heard your prayers, "......stick around for a very long time". remain blessed.