What kind of mother are you?
By abkinsey
@abkinsey (173)
United States
May 18, 2009 3:56pm CST
What kind of mother are you? What is your parenting style like?
I am a spiritual mother. I don't really follow any set parenting formulas. I just follow my gut and try to use God's guidance in my parenting decisions. We do like Dr. Sears quite a bit and his ideas have been very helpful to us but we don't agree with all of his ideas and generally turn to some of his stuff when we are out of ideas of our own. I am the kind of Mom who does the hippie nursing, babywearing, making your own babyfood stuff. We also don't spank and try not to yell. At the same time, I'm not paranoid about germs and like to see my son go out and have a good time. We are strict in terms of our rules in our household, so while we respect our son and his contributions to the family, we are still the parents.
Oh, I also believe that parents hold the primary responsibility for the education of children. We don't like the public schools where we live, so if we can't find an affordable private school, we will be homeschooling.
Anyway, I always like to hear about people's parenting styles, as different things work for different families. What works for your family?
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3 responses
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
10 Aug 09
I, including the parents who spoil the child. I know it's not very good, I began to alter the pattern of my foster children. I now become very dependent and not independent, because all my fault. This is now my husband and I are have a problem, and as a result of all this is my child so I do not see. I always let my child do all that he would like. so that my child does not want to learn. I very sad with this situation. I now try to do the best for my child. I was, the mother of the unstable type. so whatever the situation my child to be affected.
@rachel2009 (35)
• China
19 May 09
I think I have a free style for my child, not following any special rules just obeying my heart and feeling. I wish my child to be healthy both in body and mental, not particularly in studying. Show my love to my child as often as possible so that he will have love in his heart, which will make his life bright, no matter what the situation is. I am seldom angry with hime for his grade in school so long as he tries his best, while i'm strict in his personality.
@34momma (13882)
• United States
18 May 09
I don't know if i have style. I am just very honest with my children. I don't sugar coat anything when i speak to them. of course my honest goes according to age. but i tell them the truth always. i love them with my whole heart, and see them as people and not as just my children. i see them for the wonderful human beings they are.