If your partner cheated on you, would you..

Instead of naming it a "chance" i prefer, probability. I would tell her that anything like she has done can come and hit her , still i would add that i do not have such intention but i would make her suffer the consequences. She would be kinda paranoid about this if she is really regretful about she has done, so if she was really into earning me back she would put more efforts in this.

I think I get it now. :) What you actually want to do is make her paranoid to see if she really regrets what she did. If she becomes paranoid and exerts more effort into making it up to you, then that tells you that she is really sorry for what she did. Did I get it right?

So you'd forgive her and take her back. BUT tell her that you'd cheat on her too if you were given the chance? Or are you saying that you'd leave her for someone else if ever you find someone else you're interested in?

Haha! That made me laugh. :) I don't believe in revenge though but I guess it can work that way too if you want. :P They kind of had it going their way once they cheated.

What if they had a one night stand but your husband was drunk?

Good thing my husband is very honest. I can feel that. He never drinks, not even smoke. I am glad he never drink and smoke. But for the sake of responding to your question, I think I would ask his explanation. If he did not really know what happened or just got carried away due to his being drunk, I think once is forgivable. Twice is no longer tolerable and we might end up our relationship as simple as that. This is how firm I am because I always believe that prevention is better that cure. So better not drink and not drink with ladies. Just men. Pure men. No gays. As long as one night stand was done without the full mind of my husband then that is still under forgivable circumstances.

Thanks for answering my question. :) I get what you're saying. Doing something once, it might still be a mistake. But if it's done twice, it definitely isn't a mistake. :)