To a lady,to find a good husband is imortant or have a good job is important?
By cindyliu0822
@cindyliu0822 (17)
China
May 19, 2009 5:08am CST
do you think to a laday, what is important in her life? yes we may say both the family and the job are important. but now i want ask, as a successful lady, which is more important? if she cannot do well both of these two things.
for me now a question, there is a good job where i can be exalted. but i must leave far from my hometown,my parents,my friends and... and the key is i haven't a boyfriend now. both my parents and my friend think that the important thing for me now is to find a good boyfriend. yes i know it is important for me for this age in China. but i won't like this, i want to be successful in my work, and in future i want to own my own business. is it wrong for a lady?
3 responses
@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
19 May 09
Now, we are in this modern era, where woman have equal rights to the same job as man. So, if your new job worth it, you can go and try it. About finding a good boyfriend, it may takes time and perhaps depends on a person's fate. Who knows, maybe you might find your future boyfriend in your new working area. We can't predict our own future. Wish you good luck..
@cindyliu0822 (17)
• China
19 May 09
thanks a lot,yes we can't predict our own future,so just live at present should be well for me.
@fasyahime (629)
• Malaysia
19 May 09
i will choose to find very good job than husband because you won't know how long the marriage will last!finding great job will guarantee me a better life and future!i care less about man or marriage! it's disgusting to even see myself bow to the man!i make my own decision and marriage will hold my own freedom because in my culture i have to ask my husband's permission if i decide to do something!i hate that kind of rule and that's why i will be single for the rest of my life!
@damojinghong (349)
• China
19 May 09
dear cindyliu0822 this is also a very hard choice for me ,a man .We come from the same country ,so i understand you very clearly.Traditionally many parents hope their daughters can find a kind husband .they think this is the most important thing in their daughters' life.But it is all old views.
In the modern society more and more girls choose a good job and then get married.You can accept this job and find your half part in your working!
@cindyliu0822 (17)
• China
19 May 09
thanks very much! yes accept this job has been my decision. i am just afraid if i can find my half part in my future woring.
