How old is too old to have children?
By cpamanda
@cpamanda (693)
United States
November 11, 2006 9:35pm CST
What do you think? Children involve sleepless night and lots of diapers, financial responsibilities. Is there an age where children are no longer appropriate?
13 responses
@tiff1496 (570)
• United States
12 Nov 06
I would say 48.
Because the chance of a woman having a baby with Down's syndrome increases as she gets older. Only 1 in 2000 births from teenage mothers are affected by Down's syndrome, but this goes up to 1 in 10 in 48-year-old women.
Thanks is a big chance.
@sbeauty (5865)
• United States
14 Nov 06
I had my 2 children when I was 28 and 30. I was an old parent for the times, and when I attended parent functions I was always much older than the other mothers. Now a lot of people tend to wait until they're older and more financially stable to start families, and I respect their choice. I think I would hate to have had a child much past 35 or 40. I am 55 now, and I would hate to think I was still having to raise teenagers.
I have a friend who is 60. She is raising two step-grandchildren after never having children of her own. That has been an interesting experience for her. The youngest is still only in 6th grade. I don't envy her at all.
@cpamanda (693)
• United States
14 Nov 06
Yes, I can see that you were probably one of the older parents. I guess nowadays people wait until they are more established in their careers to get married, much less marry. I am ready now and I hope my husband will jump on the bandwagon with me soon.
@TannerSite (698)
• United States
12 Nov 06
My personal opinion is 50 years old. I think any older than that and things get weird, not to mention the failing of our biological clock.
@ChewySpree (1832)
• United States
12 Nov 06
I am 36 and pregnant with my first child. I'll be 37 when it comes. I'm 16 weeks pregnant right now and I have had several tests run to check the baby and everything looks good right now. I personally wouldn't want to go above 40, but that's just me. I really think it's up to each individual couple, how they feel, and what works best for them.
Good luck in trying - I was so surprised that we got pregnant the first month we really tried.
@margieanneart (26423)
• United States
12 Nov 06
I think for the first child that 30 is the age, no later.
@Aeval39 (773)
• United States
12 Nov 06
My mom had me when she was 40, and she was on her own, too. It was really hard and you have to be ready to make sacrifices, but that's true for having a baby at any age. It's bad in the long run though, because it's hard to find a common language when you have 40 years between you.