Have you ever felt alone???
By jralivio511
@jralivio511 (480)
Philippines
May 19, 2009 2:02pm CST
Have you ever felt alone with your life?
My friend move to her new place with her brother and before the day she move I've set my mind that I can do it alone on my current place. She has two lovely brothers.
When I was alone on my place I felt that I was so alone. Aside from being the only child, I am currently far from my parents. I don't really felt lonely when I am with my friend, somehow. I have someone to talk to at the end of the day before I sleep. The first night alone was the loneliest day of my life. I cried to death and sent so many messages to my mother. She wanted me to come home the next day but I didn't. I've decided to go back home and find another job on our town. I have my parents with me and can do things with them.
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5 responses
@eweible (15)
• United States
20 May 09
i feel alone even when i am at with my friends. i am moving this fall and i am very worried about being lonely and not having friends. i cannot imagine not being near family and friends, you are so brave. maybe you should take up new hobbies and try to find new friends too?
@jralivio511 (480)
• Philippines
20 May 09
Yes, I will but I still going to move to my home town with my family. I believe my life would be more at peace. I'll take your advice thank you so much.
@121m4y4nt1 (133)
• Indonesia
20 May 09
Yes I have...when many people have their own business and make me so sad. when i feel alone I read some manga(comic) and i can make my feeling better than before. when i feel alone i always hearing some music too.... because I don't want to talk with other people about my condition...
@jralivio511 (480)
• Philippines
20 May 09
I've tried that during my first night alone in my room but it didn't help me. The only thing that I did was to cry. It somehow help to ease the loneliness but it didn't keep my face fresh the next day.
@larish (2191)
• Philippines
20 May 09
Yes, I also felt so alone. After my wedding last year, I have to move out of the house (parent's house) to live with my husband. The first month was very lonely. I usually got home before my hubby. While still waiting for his arrival, I usually end up crying and feeling so lonely. I miss my parents and sibling so much that I can't help myself but to let myself indulge in crying. But I guess it is only part of the adjustment. Now, after a year I am fine.
@jralivio511 (480)
• Philippines
20 May 09
Crying really helped to reduce sadness in our hearts and that is my one way of doing it. Having someone in your life would be the greatest part of you and I'm glad to hear that you are comfortable with your life with him now. God Bless with your married life.
@icesmile (7160)
• Romania
19 May 09
Of course that i felt alone...everybody feel this in one moment from his life.
T be alone is ok, but to feel alone is not very good. Even you are with somebody you can feel alone. this is sure.
But times will change for you and for me...life is going on...and things change, be sure.
@jralivio511 (480)
• Philippines
20 May 09
Yes, it will definitely change my life and somehow would help me to be more stronger person.
@abkinsey (173)
• United States
19 May 09
I've had times where I felt alone before. Heck, I picked up and moved across the country by myself to start over several years ago. I lived by myself in an apartment in an area where I didn't know anybody. It helped me to just force myself to leave the apartment and get involved in community activities. It was uncomfortable at first, but over time I met many wonderful friends. I don't live in that city anymore, but I still keep in touch with my friends. They were such a blessing to me during that time of my life!
@jralivio511 (480)
• Philippines
20 May 09
Good for you. I'm planning to get involve in a community service during my free day but when I move to my home town, I'll do it. It would be a good feeling to help fellowmen in my own town. Thank you for sharing.
